Most people I know have less than 0 net wealth. Really I know very few people that have positive numbers if you include a mortgage.
Yup, me too. And pretty much I hang out with educated people with very good jobs (although fairly young). I'll never forget at a dinner party where the whole table was talking about how much we all loved Mint for tracking expenses, and not thinking I blurted out how I loved watching my net worth grow with it, and ohhhh the table went silent as everyone turned to me and commented about how they don't use it for that b/c their net worth will never be positive. Seriously, we were the only couple at the table with a positive net worth (and a 6 figure one at that, although they don't know this).
I don't think any of them have large cc debt, but they all have school loans, car loans, own houses that they didn't put much down on (and talk about upsizing from in the next few years) take vacations, wear nice clothes, pay for hair cuts and coloring, eat out and drink a great deal, etc. But, they also are all 2 income families (we are just 1 income which is right around what each of them individually make), so I know they could pay things down if they focused on it. I think they've just given up, don't want to live like they're "poor," etc. The sad thing is that b/c of this, they may be really forcing themselves to remain poor.
Just today one of them mentioned that since having a baby they can't keep up with housework and are getting a maid. They both have flexible schedules allowing them to be home many afternoons and both home summers and they have a net worth that is so negative that they don't imagine ever digging it out; of course, they need to pay someone else to clean their floors for them.