This doesn't include the wife's spending and i realized after posting, it doesn't include $1200 in uncleared check for wedding venue (the big event was last weekend). That being a one time expense i'm letting it slide. ;o)
Costs are all monthly...and i'm limiting it to what i spend and have saved on.
Rent-No change
Food-$400-20: The wife now covers all the food and we've stopped eating out, but maybe once or twice a month. In just lunches at work i've stopped $100 in spending.
Gas and car costs from $100-20: Hypermiling and biking to work
Medical Marijuana $250-120: Switching to a vaperizer and shifting my purchase frequency for additional discounts.
(i'm totally self conscious of this expense around here. I have chronic stomach issues. Please be gentle with punching)
Charity $100-0: I've stopped adding to our charity contributions for now, until we know if we're getting the house (sorry NPR)
Therapy $120-0: Stopped going. Haven't lost my mind yet.
Phone-no change
Not going to burning man saved me about $800 per month when averaged over the summer VS last years cost (No really, $2400 to go to a party as a staff member and builder *facepunch*).
Not going to parties, camp outs, and drink ups...Not even sure how to do the math here, but we say "no, saving for house and a baby. We can't make it this time." A LOT.
There's also a crap-ton of transactions for things like massages, clothing, sporting goods and uncategorized ATM withdraws that are distant history.