I reached out to the agent and let him know that much to mu surprise, the tenant may be interested. I simply asked "how does commission work in a situation like that". Again, we have no signed contract with him, and the plan, unless the tenants decided to vacate early, was to list at the end of May. He said, "I'm totally negotiable", and then continued on about how he think it's best if he next reaches out to the PM to see how serious the tenant is.
I hate the vagueness, but at this point, I have a number in mind, which I may flex depending on how this plays out (if it plays out at all). If he doesn't like the number, frankly that's his problem and he shouldn't have moved forward without clarification. Now, I am admittedly a softie and pretty terrible at playing hardball, but I feel like I could stand strong here. When we get to this point, I'll say, "I think given the work you've done and the work you will do see this through to closing, $xxxx is a far commission." If he doesn't like it, the alternative is that I can pay him nothing at all, have the PM (who is a licensed agent) finish the deal, and pay her instead.
If/when we determine the buyer is serious, and Agent and I settle on an asking price, I'll throw out the number before we get too far along. Likely no later than the point at which we give a price and the buyer accepts and agrees to sign on that.
Does this sound like a reasonable plan?
(At 2.5%, he'd get about $22k. But there would be showings, marketing, etc. For just helping me price it and managing the paperwork through to closing--keeping in mind he will need to open the house for all inspections**, etc. since I'm out of state, I think $5000 is fair.)
**The property manager could also do this. She is clearly bent that I didn't list with her, but frankly, she has never really impressed me and I find her attention to detail lacking. So I don't know how helpful and available she is going to be, if there is no money in the deal for her. (I may end up needing to throw a small commission to her, if she ends up officially representing the tenant/buyer, which I'm willing to do, but that would be lower than what I'd pay my agent.