Up to a couple of years ago, I used to try and convince others of things that I found interesting, or fascinating: a great documentary on Netflix, books, mustachianism, Joe Rogan, Bigger Pockets, jiu jitsu, and archery. No longer. There's too little time to waste mine trying to convince others of what I know is awesome (with the caveat, to me, yes yes, but I think they're awesome if people gave them a shot.)
Agreed!
Personally I am not going to talk about it too much to other people either. I am not going to hide it but in Belgium, realistically, achieving FIRE takes about 20 years of working. So I am going to be 45 -47’ish. Most people I meet are also in their 40’s. Add another 20 years and they can retire anyway.
In Belgium you either stumble upon MMM while young and you do not need me talking about it, or you are naturally frugal and investing orientated in which case a slight nudge towards MMM is all it takes. All other cases you either are not frugal, not open towards investing or too old anyway.
I have the luck of being natural frugal an investing orientated from a young age and have learned in the last 15 years that people either get it or never will. And if they get it they will come talk to you about it, ask questions….
When I first discovered Warren Buffett and value investing I was working in a 25 person team. It was new to me, so I talked about it. Only two co-workers found it interesting. I am still friends with them. I am also friends with some other former co-workers but we never discuss anything about investments.
Now, these other former co-workers know I did well with my investments. They know that the two co-workers who talked with me about investments also did well. They know those co-workers. One of the old co-workers got an inheritance, it is at several banks in several different funds. She asked, what should we do with it? I told her: get a list of how much is at each bank and in which funds (just the ISIN-code, with that I can find all I need to know). This was over a year ago, did she ever make that overview? Nope, a few times when we talked she said: ‘yeah, I really should make that overview’. I just replied with ‘yes, you really should’. She didn’t and she won’t. Then out of the blue she will get a call from a bank person, saying one of the funds comes at maturity date and then he will sell her another one of their crappy funds as a replacement. ...