Hi FIRE folks, I'm hoping some of you might be able to give me a little hand-holding, or perhaps a punch in the face. I'm not sure what I need more right now! :)
I'm not FIREd yet, but getting close. I have had a successful and well-paying career as a lawyer for ~10 years. In general, I really like the work I do, but I get fed up with the people and politics (not unique to being a lawyer, but I feel like it's worse in this field than many).
I am not ready to retire yet (financially or emotionally), but I'm looking into job/career options outside of the legal realm. I am excited about this idea and it's what I thought I would probably do when I went to law school (as more of a save-the-world type, I didn't expect to practice law forever, if at all). Here's the kicker, though: shocker, I have an ego! I am comfortable being a lawyer because I'm really good at the work I do; my clients appreciate me and I like helping them; and I enjoy being a part of a "guild" -- I am active in the legal community/bar associations and enjoying being a part of this community, even if the people are sometimes nuts. My professional identity is very much wrapped up in "being a lawyer," and my identity as a whole is very connected to my job -- not exclusively, I have plenty of interests outside of work, but I don't mind that my work takes a leading role in my self identity. I'm proud of what I do, how hard I've worked to get here, and the successful path that I'm on.
But ... it still doesn't feel like the thing I want to do forever and I think I'm ready for a change, even though change feels SCARY.
How have those of you who've moved on from successful careers, either to FIRE or other major job/career shifts, dealt with this dynamic? Do you have any regrets? What was the mental/emotional transition like to go from being a "professional whatever" to something new? What's it like to go from being at the top of the ladder to the bottom rung in a new field?
Thanks for any advice, insights, or face punches. I need a kick in the pants!