Well, I think the birth control thing all comes down to controlling women. If you let them have birth control, they will all go out and screw anything that moves, because they are all evil seductresses.
I never really got the "controlling women" argument. It is nothing more than who pays for the birth control, most of which can be had relatively cheap, with or without insurance and before/after the ACA.
I got a vasectomy last year and had to pay just over $600 out of pocket for it. Is someone trying to control me because I had to pay for my birth control? I would argue if any birth control should be covered, the vasectomy should be pretty high on the list. A woman can only have one pregnancy at a time, but a guy can cause multiple at a time. Joking aside, it is something to think about.
In the broader scheme of the thread, as far as the ACA goes, it needs to be repealed or drastically changed. I help with our company insurance policy at work and even switching companies to lower priced, higher deductible plans (and even now on to partially self-insuring) the minimum that we have been able to keep the increases to over the last two years is 59%. It simply is not sustainable. Even half of it is not sustainable. If you want to talk about something that could put a serious hurt on the economy if gone unchecked.
I am very close to the healthcare industry. I personally think that everyone needs skin in the game for it to work. It makes me sick to see someone that pays little to nothing for healthcare, be able to utilize services without a second thought, then have someone that waited until the last minute to go get a needed service, because it is going to cost them thousands. I have watched someone go from the ER to the pharmacy, then back to the ER, because they did not want to pay a $3.20 copay on a $400+ medication - all of this while most people won't make it out of the ER for less than a few grand out of pocket.
So in short, we created a system that subsidizes and creates bad habits, punishes people that have to pay for most of it, and it is quickly becoming less affordable than it was. This is far from the only problem, but the ACA helped create it. There are good portions of it too, but it requires an overhaul. Currently, there are too many ways to work the system. If we are going to keep privatized insurance and make it affordable, loopholes need to be closed. I personally think it was designed to fail with the hopes of implementing a single payer system.