How are kids meant to learn to navigate the world and solve their own problems when parents are watching them all day long?
Having a tracking app ≠ watching a person all day long.
If I were married to someone so bored, anxious, or obsessed that...
You would want out due to anxiety? Is that true of any mental health issue? OUCH. How about helping them get help?
No, I said, "...so anxious [...] that...".
Having a condition and doing unacceptable behaviours are two different things. For me, someone having anxiety is no problem. For me, someone spending the whole day watching where I go would be.
If I managed to connect a loved one with effective help (which yes, would be my first great effort) and they accepted that, they wouldn't be "so [anything] that" and this wouldn't apply.
But if a person had any condition that resulted in
behaviours affecting my well-being and
went untreated, yes, I would want out. I lived with the impact of that for three decades and it's now a personal boundary in terms of marriage.
There is no condition that I have issue with in and of itself. A condition that is persistent, untreated, and affecting my well-being, yes, I would allow myself to exit from. Not saying everyone should do that, but having lived that life for decades, I would not require myself to live with the effect on me again.
And I wouldn't confuse "desire for an App" with "problem in spouse", so I could live with the App.
