Right. Fair enough.
But, say, saying "let's go for a pow-wow" at work - you would imagine that isn't going to offend..? I've never heard anyone here (Canada) say it, but I seem to remember it from the UK, in absolutely no contextual situation referencing anything - just as a borrowed word meaning get together or meeting.
Yup.
Totally something I wouldn’t say.
Again, systematic racism absolutely permeates culture. It’s everywhere all the time. It is “the norm”
Ok. So, location matters? English has so so so many borrowed words. I can't imagine anyone in the UK would think anything of it. But in North America it is an issue because of the history.
Is that fair - that it isn't racist (and I still don't like the use of the term racist - it is in no way denigrating the race to say pow-wow, it is borrowing a word from another language - just like Canada/Kanata means village!) if you are outside the sphere of people?
Or hold on, is using Iroquoian to call the country Canada racist??
Is... using gym racist? That's an Indian word (gymkhana). Or.. good grief,
Blighty comes from Hindi.
I don't get where the line is drawn. Or do we just say, historically we took from you; we shouldn't have done that; we apologise (which I think the Canadian government has done). There are things which are now in our culture, our language that we took from you before we realised doing such things was harmful - those alive today are (residential schools aside) mostly not... ah... guilty? Are not intending to make your life worse through that taking? We will do our best to respect your culture and leave it and you alone... To not make light use of things that are serious to you?
Shit, our ancestors did bad things. We're sorry that that happened. We're sorry that bad things continue to happen to you (and poor people, and women, and the environment). We can't make it up to your ancestors or to you.
Thing is, I don't know who "us" and "our" is/are. I'm an immigrant. I don't want to be weighted down by the guilt of what other people did. I feel terrible that we're destroying the planet, that HR departments throw out CVs of people with 'foreign' surnames, all that. I'm not - generally - in a position to make any amends, to anyone, for anything. Obviously I can try to... ah... be careful with language (by the way, I am asking these questions out of curiousity, not because I think I'm acting in a racist manner myself on a daily basis - though no doubt I probably am - I am aware of my instincts/biases but I just don't interact with people very much - I do know I
am racist, or at least that I judge people by appearance and skin colour is part of appearance).
Like... I get it. There is white privilege. It's wrong. There should be no white, male, well spoken privilege. Everything should be done on merit.
(I am very much conflating "the issue" with "my own insecurities around this topic" at this point. And good grief haven't we gone a long way from tennis).