I always sensed a the darkness in him, but I thought his joy of life in travel and sharing food and experiences with people would win out. I am very sad that he is gone, and sad for his family and friends. Considering his straightforward salty language, and no holds barred statements on many things, I never would have picked him to be an ‘ambassador’ to Iran - but he curiousity and love of people and traditions and celebrations shone through. He respected genuine people.