I read your entire other thread, as well as this one, and I'm left wondering what you are hoping to accomplish on the MMM forum. Are you trying to "wake up" the FIRE population that you have deemed insufficiently agitated by the world's injustices? Are you trying to work out your own thoughts and beliefs? It seems clear from your other thread that you have rejected the raison d'etre of this site and forum: maximizing savings so as to achieve financial independence as early as possible.
I'm 40 and I realize this is going to come off kind of patronizing, but, to be honest, I was where you are 15 years ago. I had spent time in sub Saharan Africa, the slums of Calcutta, the anti-Western Iran, and elsewhere and I was frankly overwhelmed at the injustice and horrors I saw, especially compared to the fat, lazy, and uninterested America I had come from. I wanted to shake everyone else around me awake: don't you SEE what's happening? Don't you understand? How can you spend your time watching sports and planning vacations when people are being maimed, raped, and tortured in the DRC so you can have your coltan-built cell phones?
After a few years of pretty significant depression over the state of the world and my uncertainty over what I should DO about it (I wanted to save the world...but...how? If I did 1 thing it left 4000 others not done)... I eventually came to the realization that I am simply unable to save the world and it is a waste of my life's energy to fret about it. I've since learned that my circle of control is pretty small, but that is the place where I *can* make a difference, if I choose to. My circle of influence is a bit larger, and in fact I have directed my career in that direction (negotiation and conflict management consultant to a variety of international and domestic organizations). But even there humility dictates that I recognize the limits of my ability to change others.
In short, to you someone like me might from the outside look like a selfish, complacent person only concerned with amassing money, and to hell with the rest of the world.
To me, I've tread the path you're on, and I'm comfortable with where I've landed. I'm much happier now that I've stopped shouldering the overwhelming burden that I felt 15 yrs ago.
And for what it's worth, I for sure stand on the shoulders of the feminists who came before me. I have 2 masters degrees from top universities and I am a high income sole breadwinner for my family: yet I feel no particular responsibility to stay in my job, or use my degrees, either in gratitude to those before me, or as an example to those who come after me. My living life on my own terms, whatever I (and my DH) decide them to be, will be my example and legacy to my children. Part of that legacy is having the skills and ability to amass enough assets that I can then trade for more time with those I love the most. Thus for me financial independence = freedom.