I have a landline still and that's the number we give out for anyone needing a number. We do not answer calls we don't recognize, period. But one thing that seems to have helped enormously was adding the disconnected tone to the beginning of our answer message. Found it online, set up the machine and recorded it off and then put on a short blurb of the number itself (no names) and to leave a message. So it sounds like: BEEEPBEEPbeep....... this is 123-456-7890, leave a message.
The tone is recognized by auto dialers/robocalls and removes the number from their active list to keep calling supposedly. I was doubtful of it working but in the year since I put it on there, I get maybe 2-3 calls a week and that's down from 2-3 a day.
I do remove it when I am expecting a call from like the doctor or something, but now tend to give out my cell to the important # I want to get through anyway.
If you have landline, turn off the ringer if someone is sick/doesn't want to be disturbed. Check messages/Caller ID later to see if you missed anything important. Hell, I do this for my cell anyway.
OP - stop answering your phone. As sucky as it is, until the communications companies figure out a way to stop number spoofing and the other technology needed to cut off spam/robocallers, you can't depend on recognizing the number or being able to consistently block callers you don't want to your phone. So the workaround is to screen all calls unless you are 100% expecting a call from THAT number today... but in general, if is it's someone you need to get back to, then call them/text them back after you see their number/listen to their message. If they are legit, the wouldn't call you at all, and if they're scammers, you've just added a target to your back. Arguing with phone spoofer/scammers is actually bad because not only did you just confirm they have a real live person on the end of that number, you are talking to them. They ALL believe that no matter what you're saying/screaming/threatening... they will wear you down and scam your last dollar out of you eventually. And they will sell out your number to every blacklist out there so even more scammers will start on you. Smartest thing to do? Ever seen that old movie, Wargames? The only way to win is not to play.