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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #700 on: February 29, 2024, 08:38:16 AM »
https://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=398552

It's Bogleheads, so the OP won't be the only one who doesn't see it. He's wondering if his ten-year-old, 52,000 mile Nissan Sentra is on its last legs. It has no known issues mind you, but he's read on the internet that sometimes they break down.

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I have two vehicles.
2015 CX9 Mazda - 63k miles used as family vehicle.
2014 Nissan Sentra - 52k miles used for day to day commute.

Wife works from home and uses the CX9 as required. Late this year /early next year DD would start driving so probably would need to buy another car.

Question is about the reliability of the Nissan car.There are lots of CVT failures reported.So far 9 years my car looks ok.Are there other Nissan Sentra owners who have used the Sentra beyond 60k miles and are ok?

Options I am with
1. keep Sentra buy used for DD and keep Sentra until it fails
2. Buy another for me. Give Sentra to DD . If sentra fails get. Another vehicle
3 sell Sentra now. Buy one vehicle now. Buy for DD later.


Not even given the dignity of a numbered choice is the obvious option I would choose:

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try to keep to existing two cars, I drive CX9 for day to day, DD gets Sentra. When wife needs car we have to coordinate

 

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« Reply #701 on: February 29, 2024, 09:31:03 AM »
Man, if my cars don’t make it past 100K miles, I am pissed.  That hasn’t happened to me yet. Does this person think cars can’t be repaired?  Weird.  Penny smart, pound foolish.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #702 on: February 29, 2024, 09:38:31 AM »
My last car, a Mazda, went over 300,000 km.  Regular maintenance will keep a car going for far longer than this poster has driven those cars.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #703 on: February 29, 2024, 10:35:55 AM »
Except for rust and collisions and wear for rough rough roads - cars can last 250K miles when driven and maintained well.
Yes, there are some turkeys in the bunch. The Nissan CVT is unreliable. So is the Ford Powershift. And there are others.

I suppose the person wants to sell it before it begins to have problems to maximize their resale. Perhaps they are fishing for justification to buy another vehicle.
It might be cheaper to replace the transmission than replace the car when it acts up. Assuming they have a reliable independent repair shop to rely on and not the dealer.

Recently had a conversation with family. Is Mitsubishi reliable? How many miles on your existing car? 36K. Any troubles? No. Just had it a while.
The opportunity costs of changing cars so frequently! Could have benefited their grandkids by playing the "long game" instead of the car dealer.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #704 on: March 01, 2024, 02:56:02 PM »

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« Reply #705 on: March 01, 2024, 03:13:02 PM »
#1, not the poster but the guy who clearly doesn't get it.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/03/should-you-flirt-at-working-events-coworker-spies-on-me-and-more.html

Oh yes - this was absolutely horrifying this morning.  This guy is NOT a friend would have been part of my answer.

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« Reply #706 on: March 01, 2024, 03:55:22 PM »
Honestly, I think the whole process of interviewing for a position (at least an engineering position) is badly flawed.  I'd much rather (as both manager and worker) to have a quick chat that covers technical aspects and glaring communication issues and then a couple week paid trial period to see if something is going to work out.  It's a nightmare from an HR perspective, but I bet it would help hire the right person for the job much more often.

This is exactly how Chinese labor contracts are written. You are interviewed and are offered a contract with a three-month probation period. At the end of the three months, you either have successfully completed probation or are let go, depending on your performance. Most people successfully complete probation. It’s no more work for HR than hiring someone who quits after a couple months.


We typically do this in the US as well since most states are "at-will" situations where one can be fired at any time for nearly any reason.  Most new hires are on probation six months and subject to termination if they don't stack up. Still, interviews are critical for finding who might be a good match according to their ability to solve problems, work collaboratively, think on their feet, etc.

This is how every single software egineer at my company is hired. Every single one starts out on a 6 month probationary contract.

Every single one. No exceptions. I started out as a contractor, all of my coworkers started out as a contractor, my manager started out as a contractor.

People go through a few technical interviews, start out as contractors. Only about 25% of the contractors get hired on full time.

It works out pretty well and the full time staff are all nice, respectful, professional, and generally know what we're doing.

The contractors are sort of hit or miss though. They might know what they are doing. Might not. Might be professional and have good communication skills. Might not. Might not even be working at all. Who knows really.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #708 on: April 15, 2024, 03:13:19 PM »
Askamanager continues to provide.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/04/i-promoted-one-employee-instead-of-her-coworker-and-now-my-whole-team-is-upset.html

I especially like the complaining about how the passed-up worker is no longer going "above and beyond!" She's no longer taking on additional work! She doesn't want to attend our (kinda but not really "optional") happy hours? Gee, I wonder why the F not? Think she's maybe looking for another job, genius?

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #709 on: April 15, 2024, 08:52:18 PM »
Every time I read AAM I make the mistake of reading the comments. >.<
Now I'm rolling my eyes at both the letter writer and the self-righteous fan fiction in the comments. Arrgh.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #710 on: April 24, 2024, 11:10:56 AM »
Just came across this one from a hiring manager, surprisingly not on Ask a Manager (but it definitely would fit there)

"Candidate hid that she’s pregnant!!"
https://www.teamblind.com/post/Candidate-hid-that-shes-pregnant-4uUZY583

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #711 on: April 24, 2024, 11:46:33 AM »
Sigh. Thus why that law is necessary. Because it's not just the OP, it's a bunch of the commenters as well.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #712 on: April 24, 2024, 12:38:18 PM »
I feel like the most depressing part of that is that the dude doubled down on his stance TWICE.

We are not that far removed from women being fired for being pregnant legally. It's truly ridiculous.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #713 on: April 24, 2024, 12:50:42 PM »
I mean . . . I kinda get where he's coming from?

Having a new hire be unable to work a couple months after being hired (while also sucking up the budget so you can't get a replacement) is kind of a bitch.  They're just starting to be productive at a couple months.  I'm sure she'll be a great employee when she comes back, but it sounds like the need for the position was immediate.  That's definitely going to be a headache for him.  I'd be a little frustrated too in his place.

It does sound like he is optimistically overscheduled though.  People leave, get pregnant, get sick. . . you need to plan for these eventualities in your budgets.  If you don't, it will come back and bite you.  If people are averaging 70 hrs a week working, you need WAY MORE PEOPLE . . . one wouldn't have saved that project.

Hopefully he won't simply take this as reason to stop hiring women to avoid the risk in the future.

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« Reply #714 on: April 24, 2024, 03:09:45 PM »
I mean . . . I kinda get where he's coming from?

Having a new hire be unable to work a couple months after being hired (while also sucking up the budget so you can't get a replacement) is kind of a bitch.  They're just starting to be productive at a couple months.  I'm sure she'll be a great employee when she comes back, but it sounds like the need for the position was immediate.  That's definitely going to be a headache for him.  I'd be a little frustrated too in his place.

It does sound like he is optimistically overscheduled though.  People leave, get pregnant, get sick. . . you need to plan for these eventualities in your budgets.  If you don't, it will come back and bite you.  If people are averaging 70 hrs a week working, you need WAY MORE PEOPLE . . . one wouldn't have saved that project.

Hopefully he won't simply take this as reason to stop hiring women to avoid the risk in the future.

I can relate to this perspective. I think for most of us in this situation, it would at least fit under, dang, this is frustrating given the job, needs, and way it was presented to the candidate. I dare say that most of us would probably vent a little about it to our SO in this situation, for example.

The thing that made me lose any sympathy for the OP was the comment that HR said they couldn't fire her. I doubt many (if any) people on here would even consider firing her for it much less talk to HR about it despite their frustrations. That's where the OP lost credibility and made it fit into OP doesn't see it.
« Last Edit: April 24, 2024, 06:36:51 PM by Wolfpack Mustachian »

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #715 on: April 24, 2024, 05:28:26 PM »
I have to wonder how much overlap there is between guys like this and guys who complain about the birth rate/“demographics crisis”.  🙄

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« Reply #716 on: April 25, 2024, 08:21:47 AM »
I have to wonder how much overlap there is between guys like this and guys who complain about the birth rate/“demographics crisis”.  🙄

I am not willing to bet that it's a small percentage. But I have no idea.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #717 on: May 30, 2024, 09:29:33 AM »
Michigan man with suspended license joins court Zoom call....while driving: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1sXa9UL_rUQ

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #718 on: May 30, 2024, 09:44:54 AM »
Even more outrageous than the member of the public, the judge previously interfered with a police investigation to try to get his mistress/intern out of a drunk driving charge (source) and somehow kept his job!

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #719 on: May 30, 2024, 02:03:28 PM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

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« Reply #720 on: May 30, 2024, 03:23:27 PM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!

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« Reply #721 on: May 30, 2024, 08:09:49 PM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!

Something, something, girlfriend, kids, something something …..
Am I right or are there others?

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #722 on: May 30, 2024, 08:58:19 PM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!

Something, something, girlfriend, kids, something something …..
Am I right or are there others?

Metalcat may have actually gotten through to that person. But before that, I agree, the OP wasn't seeing it.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #723 on: May 31, 2024, 07:56:58 AM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!
I'm referring to the person who got a late start at retirement savings, has made excellent progress, but keeps shooting themself in the foot.

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« Reply #724 on: May 31, 2024, 08:10:47 AM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!
I'm referring to the person who got a late start at retirement savings, has made excellent progress, but keeps shooting themself in the foot.
Not sure that description narrows it down all that much.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #725 on: May 31, 2024, 04:15:05 PM »
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!
Glad to see this thread pop up again. One of our forumites deserves mention here, but I don't want to out them, even though it is richly deserved. Gah!

Well damn.  Now I need to know what thread!
I'm referring to the person who got a late start at retirement savings, has made excellent progress, but keeps shooting themself in the foot.
Not sure that description narrows it down all that much.
Is there an echo in here?

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #726 on: June 03, 2024, 09:31:57 PM »
Because this guy is one of the people who drive me UP A WALL.... I post it here.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/im-the-boss-whos-always-late-2.html

Don't be this. It's rude. That guy sucks.

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« Reply #727 on: June 04, 2024, 07:16:49 AM »
Because this guy is one of the people who drive me UP A WALL.... I post it here.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/im-the-boss-whos-always-late-2.html

Don't be this. It's rude. That guy sucks.

There are also ways to work around it. If you're that high up in leadership, you can set the start time of the meeting. Set it for 5 minutes after the hour/half hour. (Plenty of other people will also appreciate it.) Make the thing you're cramming in before the thing "Catch up with Wakeen at the beginning of the meeting". If you have an admin, explicitly assign them the task of getting you places on time and listen to them.

No one cares if the Big Boss rolls in at 9:30 and stays until 7 (unless they're judging the "commitment" of those who stay late as higher than those who came in early), or occasionally late to meetings. People absolutely do care if you're disrespecting their time habitually.

The other thing that really got me was "I make attempts to do be on time/early, but they are generally short-lived". So you CAN do it, it's just never been worth it to maintain the effort?

I worked with a boss like this a few years ago. We used the time between when the meeting started and when he joined to strategize around him, or to take bets on when he'd get there. His job was eliminated not long after.

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« Reply #728 on: June 04, 2024, 08:53:21 AM »
Because this guy is one of the people who drive me UP A WALL.... I post it here.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/im-the-boss-whos-always-late-2.html

Don't be this. It's rude. That guy sucks.

There are also ways to work around it. If you're that high up in leadership, you can set the start time of the meeting. Set it for 5 minutes after the hour/half hour. (Plenty of other people will also appreciate it.) Make the thing you're cramming in before the thing "Catch up with Wakeen at the beginning of the meeting". If you have an admin, explicitly assign them the task of getting you places on time and listen to them.

No one cares if the Big Boss rolls in at 9:30 and stays until 7 (unless they're judging the "commitment" of those who stay late as higher than those who came in early), or occasionally late to meetings. People absolutely do care if you're disrespecting their time habitually.

The other thing that really got me was "I make attempts to do be on time/early, but they are generally short-lived". So you CAN do it, it's just never been worth it to maintain the effort?

I worked with a boss like this a few years ago. We used the time between when the meeting started and when he joined to strategize around him, or to take bets on when he'd get there. His job was eliminated not long after.

Yeah, this guy is just an asshole.

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« Reply #729 on: June 12, 2024, 09:42:49 AM »
I should not be amazed at the level of not-getting-it that some people have, but I am. This guy really, really doesn't get it.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/update-i-was-rejected-because-i-told-my-interviewer-i-never-make-mistakes.html

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« Reply #730 on: June 12, 2024, 12:03:35 PM »
I should not be amazed at the level of not-getting-it that some people have, but I am. This guy really, really doesn't get it.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/update-i-was-rejected-because-i-told-my-interviewer-i-never-make-mistakes.html

Sheesh. So much for never making mistakes.

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« Reply #731 on: June 12, 2024, 12:27:37 PM »
I was really hoping that guy would update that he'd seen the error of his ways. Alas.

Commentariat is spot on with the therapy recommendations.

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« Reply #732 on: June 12, 2024, 04:41:19 PM »
That guy is concerningly bad.  He's getting himself blackballed across the industry.

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« Reply #733 on: June 12, 2024, 04:51:53 PM »
I should not be amazed at the level of not-getting-it that some people have, but I am. This guy really, really doesn't get it.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/update-i-was-rejected-because-i-told-my-interviewer-i-never-make-mistakes.html

Wow! I thought the original letter was bad.  This guy does not know when to stop digging.  Major issues here - main character syndrome or much more serious.

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« Reply #734 on: June 12, 2024, 05:51:08 PM »
I should not be amazed at the level of not-getting-it that some people have, but I am. This guy really, really doesn't get it.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/update-i-was-rejected-because-i-told-my-interviewer-i-never-make-mistakes.html

Wow! I thought the original letter was bad.  This guy does not know when to stop digging.  Major issues here - main character syndrome or much more serious.

This guy can't be real, can he?  He's so consistently oblivious I figured he was just trolling us. 

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« Reply #735 on: June 12, 2024, 06:06:38 PM »
I should not be amazed at the level of not-getting-it that some people have, but I am. This guy really, really doesn't get it.

https://www.askamanager.org/2024/06/update-i-was-rejected-because-i-told-my-interviewer-i-never-make-mistakes.html

Wow! I thought the original letter was bad.  This guy does not know when to stop digging.  Major issues here - main character syndrome or much more serious.

This guy can't be real, can he?  He's so consistently oblivious I figured he was just trolling us.

I know, right?  But there is something about the writing style that fits the arrogance and tunnel vision that reads true to me.  Maybe I am being fooled (as is Alison).

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #736 on: June 12, 2024, 07:17:23 PM »
If he is real, I am concerned for his wife. It can't be easy to live with him, and maybe even harmful.

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« Reply #737 on: June 13, 2024, 07:08:01 AM »
If he is real, I am concerned for his wife. It can't be easy to live with him, and maybe even harmful.

He never makes mistakes, so I think she's probably fine.

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« Reply #738 on: June 13, 2024, 09:33:06 AM »
If he is real, I am concerned for his wife. It can't be easy to live with him, and maybe even harmful.

He never makes mistakes, so I think she's probably fine.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #739 on: June 14, 2024, 09:09:42 AM »
This bit: "(I don't know if it matters but I'm male and everyone who interviewed me is female)" tells you everything you need to know about this guy.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #741 on: August 06, 2024, 10:17:32 AM »
PTF because every time this thread comes up I laugh for a good 5 minutes.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #742 on: August 06, 2024, 10:28:18 AM »
@Sibley - just "WOW" on that last one.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #743 on: August 06, 2024, 10:37:19 AM »
@Sibley - just "WOW" on that last one.

The sheer lack of self awareness is mindboggling.

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« Reply #744 on: August 06, 2024, 10:52:01 AM »
@Sibley - just "WOW" on that last one.

The sheer lack of self awareness is mindboggling.

I am really hoping for an update from this one!

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« Reply #745 on: August 06, 2024, 10:56:17 AM »
@Sibley - just "WOW" on that last one.
Agreed. Yikes. I feel really bad for the person who stayed behind. Unless they were just there to see what happened after everyone else left and simply never came back afterwards. That manager needs a lot of help and I can only imagine what their other personal relationships are like.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #746 on: August 27, 2024, 08:46:42 AM »

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #747 on: August 27, 2024, 10:16:34 AM »
Found the busy body! Hopefully she'll course correct, but realistically you know she won't.

https://captainawkward.com/2024/08/27/1439-ive-observed-some-problems-in-my-neighbors-marriage-should-i-sit-them-down-over-a-cup-of-tea-and-share-my-insights/

Wow. The self-assuredness of the letter writer just screams out of the screen. It's almost a parody.

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #748 on: August 27, 2024, 10:46:16 AM »
Found the busy body! Hopefully she'll course correct, but realistically you know she won't.

https://captainawkward.com/2024/08/27/1439-ive-observed-some-problems-in-my-neighbors-marriage-should-i-sit-them-down-over-a-cup-of-tea-and-share-my-insights/

Wow. The self-assuredness of the letter writer just screams out of the screen. It's almost a parody.

Double wow!  That anount of confidence seems pathological

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Re: OP Is the Only One Who Doesn't See It
« Reply #749 on: August 27, 2024, 12:10:05 PM »
Found the busy body! Hopefully she'll course correct, but realistically you know she won't.

https://captainawkward.com/2024/08/27/1439-ive-observed-some-problems-in-my-neighbors-marriage-should-i-sit-them-down-over-a-cup-of-tea-and-share-my-insights/

Haha, that could be my friend.
She's actually an amazing person, and talking to her is great, because she knows everything!