You're making a lot of (incorrect) assumptions.
I'm not fantastic with younger kids for long periods. Were I to stay home from work to look after my son he would get less quality time and attention than he currently does from me because I'd be constantly exhausted. I know this because I have taken some time off work to care for my son. Our son loves to go to the daycare he's in. He has friends there, and knows and likes the ECEs. There are more activities to do than I would plan out for him at home. (We currently live in a smaller house with threadbare sofa and carpets and only one older car though.)
It's quite presumptuous to decree that you know what's best for a child and parents you've never met.
Its perfectly alright to admit that you dont want to be bothered by young kids.In which case you either suck it up and put the needs of the child above your own or arrange with your spouse that they look after the child and you work.
Please feel free to review the post you quoted. You appear to have misread it.
Can I ask, how many kids do you have? At what age did you quit your job to look after them?
I didn't misread your post, you admitted you arn't good with younger kids.
I have four children and was independently wealthy before they appeared so didn't have a job to quit.
Look, I get that its not easy to look after young children. I fully understand its unstimulating and quite often very repetative and boring.
But if you bring them into the world you should do your very best for them.
If you are not going to commit to being the best parent possible why have kids in the first place.
And theres one thing you definately should not do, and that is to pretend that daycare is equally valid when the reason you choose daycare is because you prefer work rather than being at home.