KTG is mad because his worldview is being challenged by multiple users, so he's lashing out with sarcasm. Even a moderator rebuked him. If that's not a signal that something is fundamentally and objectively wrong and offensive (misogyny in this case), then Idk what is.
Mad because my worldview is being challenged? Lol come on, do I sound like I am worried about my would view being challenged? At this point I am in it for the comedy.
@DarkandStormy before we continue, lets agree on what 'misogyny' actually is. Making it as easy as possible, google defines it as "dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women." (
https://www.google.com/search?q=misogyny+&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&client=firefox-b). If you want to use another definition let me know.
This is sexist.
So is saying women make better mothers then men do, and men make better dads than women do. So what? If you want to get on your high PC 2018 horse so be it, but just because I say we are different doesn't mean I think of them less or they are worse than men. Quit making this out to me more than it is. There are many things women generally do better than men, and there are things men generally do better than women. That's just historic fact.
It took me a long time to figure them out, and I just roll my eyes at the predictability now.
This is chauvinist and sexist.
If you said over-confident, I would certainly agree with you. Chauvinist? Maybe. Sexist? Really reaching here.
But, if its one thing I have certainly learned is that while men mourn the loss of a relationship after it ends, a lot of women will do it while in one, all the while not saying a word about it (although you'll realize later there were hints of the demise taking place that you didn't pick up on). That's a big reason why you see how quickly they are able to flip the switch and move on to another guy so quickly.
This is stereotyping based on your personal experiences which you then equate to all women everywhere. And it's sexist.
Do you think I live in a bottle? I have a bunch of friends and we've all shared experiences over the years and we've all come to the same conclusions with variances here and there. Are there exceptions, sure. But I am not going to give advice based on outliers.
Plus, generally they hate to be alone and all they have to do is bat their eyes and get another boyfriend pretty easily.
Another sexist point not based in reality.
Are there exceptions, sure, which is why I used the word 'generally'. THE VAST MAJORITY OF WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO BE ALONE. Most seem to start planning their wedding day right out of the womb. If that's sexist so be it.
Also, women are far more picky than men are. They have absolutely every reason to be. Men typically have to go through all sort of evaluations before being chosen, while most of the time women just have to be attractive enough. Now I am saying that as a guy. Our standards are typically not as high as our counterparts. Guys, if you want to ding me here for letting the secret out of the bottle, so be it, but you know I am right here too. Provided she isn't crazy. But man, we should leave that for another thread.
Actually, you moving on will probably drive her nuts.
You don't know these people. Wtf?
Lets see... a guy ignoring or blowing off a girl he was in a relationship with? Yes, will definitely drive her nuts. To varying degrees of course. But a lot better advice to the guy than saying 'be understanding and supporting' while she drags you along behind her new life.
All its really saying is that you are a douche with low standards. Don't be a douche with low standards.
Way too insult people you don't know.
Yeah, if you are acting like a puppy following the whims of a girl that doesn't want you, yes, you are a douche.
Don't give too much too early, make them prove they are worth it first
This is sexist. Why don't men have to "prove they are worth it first" to women? Only a sexist person views relationships so one-sided.
WE ARE CONSTANTLY PROVING IT. That's how it works. We generally are the ones pursuing! I can't tell you how many times I have had a girl who was a friend like a guy, but couldn't ask him out for fear of rejection, which I just had to laugh at each time. One time rejection? And your confidence is shattered? Give me a break. Very few women understand the pursuit because few of them do it. They typically wait to be pursued. Once and a while I hear about one that actually does and they get all my respect, but the vast majority do not. Instead they send signals that they want to be pursued, and can't even handle the guy not acting on those very well.
The problem with many guys is that they over-pursue, and over commit to that too soon. Whether its dinner and a movie, attention, etc etc. So I am telling him go slow and wait for positive reinforcement before going all in. Push too hard too soon and you will blow it. Do I have to be really telling you these things? Have you dated before?
women are typically in the driver's seat on how a relationship progresses
Your experience does not equal reality for every relationship.
No of course not, which is why I used 'typically'. And they are.
As my best friend's grandma used to say, "Pussy makes the world go around."
Can we get more misogynistic? Good grief.
I didn't even say this, A WOMAN DID. I can't even take credit for it, but I will say I think its true. Annnddd... looking at the definition of misogynistic not even sure how you can ask that.
But thankfully there is, so we do everything we can to get the best of it we can, careers, cars, etc etc. Its all to impress them.
You are referring to a woman's vagina as "it."
What is wrong with "it"? Thats not derogatory. "it" is used to refer to a thing previously mentioned or easily identified. Don't make this more than what it is.
And shockingly, men do not act solely for the reason you state. That is your experience alone and you again are trying to state it as if it's a fact for men everywhere.
You are right, some men are gay. This means the rest I left out are doing it for dick.
I can't imagine where I would be if I disliked them.
You don't even understand the term "sexist" apparently.
This is absolutely ridiculous, you are seriously here just to pick a fight. What should have I put there? "I can't imagine where I would be if I disliked a group of the human species that are not of the same sex as my own?" What should have I written there Stormy?
I find many of them predictable. And what I posted as advice isn't much different than a group of women talking at happy hour. When men aren't mostly around, women are far more brutal in judging guys on topics than most men will ever know
How would you know what women talk about when they're alone? Seems like you can't "predict" that, buddy.
I've actually hung out with the opposite sex. Have you?
I feel like I have been involved with enough to stand by what I said
You've "been involved with enough" women to roll out these stereotypes of the entire gender as mostly fact? Give me a break.
Wait did you just say... "entire gender"? Stormy, come on. Identifying a group by a female or male? That sounds sexist. You can't group people into orientations like that. What's wrong with you?
You clearly do not see women as equal to you, given that they have to prove themselves to you/men. That is textbook sexism and misogyny.
I stand in the shadow of some women. Like friends I have who are single mothers. And I don't do shit for someone who doesn't show me they are worth it, even in the pursuit of a relationship. How either of that, is 'sexism' and misogyny is beyond me.
Seriously, it looks like you have an anger issue with men. I can't see any other reason for you to go off on all of your points, repeating the same words like its going to prove your point more the more times you say it.
The best part is, you aren't going to change me. lol but keep it up. I'll go heat up some popcorn.