We're in the mid-Atlantic, and we were on the better side of the snow/rain dividing line. 50 miles to the West of us got a few inches of snow and then ice on top, while we only got freezing rain -> regular rain. The wind thankfully dried all the moisture off roads and sidewalks as the temps dropped, so little to no black ice.
As with everyone who was impacted by the storm, the cold was probably the worst part. Our heat pump (non-inverter) struggles once temps drop below ~20F for an extended period of time, so I'm sure our electric bill will be a bit painful. The worst part wasn't the first day of cold, it was the third - by that point the ground had good and truly frozen and all that thermal mass that normally keeps our unconditioned basement around 55F dropped the temps to about 48F down there. When the house loses thermal mass like that, it's hard to not feel cold constantly. It's definitely given me some things to think about this coming spring WRT insulation, chimney repair, and air sealing.
I've been wondering if others felt this way, but I kept feeling an interesting solidarity with most of the country. Pretty much everyone West of the Rockies was experiencing uncomfortably cold windchills, and although it's terribly unfortunate that the storm turned out to be as deadly as it was, knowing that most people were struggling to stay warm took the edge off the cold a bit.