I'm married to a wonderful man, and he's a doctor! He has just started his fellowship in a big city, and from what I gather, it is incredibly stressful:
1. Working any new job is hard, and requires adjusting to new people and hoping they like you.
2. Being evaluated all the time is tough.
3. He has an exam next summer at costs $6000 to take, and he and his peers are already stressed about it. Understandable!
4. Responsible for the care of so many patients.
Trying to be a supportive spouse over here, but I DO NOT have any idea what it's like to work at a hospital. For my friends, I get to say things like, "Hey, you had a rough day, but nobody died, right?!" But for people that work in a hospital, what the heck do you say? It sounds like an incredibly demanding and draining job. Things I'm trying to do to help:
- have dinner ready when DH gets home
- go on a walk with him
- plan (frugal) dates
- make sure we are eating fruits and veges
- clean the house, take chores odd his plate
Last night he was up ALL NIGHT from stress. And heat. It's 91 degrees here with no AC. I haven't seen him like this, and would love ideas on how I can be there for him. I start a new job next week, which will make things doubly interesting >.<
Thanks for your suggestions!