Glenstache - I had to look up the Sandy Hook conspiracy theory. Holy bejeesus, people are messed up if they're threatening the family members of people who've been killed in a mass shooting. I realize it happens all the time, but...those poor parents. I can't imagine what I'd do if my daughter was killed that way, and then having people terrorize you years afterward is just unspeakable.
Metric Mouse - I was eighteen when 9/11 happened and I still remember every detail of what led to me hearing about the terrorist attacks. I remember the pajamas I was wearing (it was my day off and I slept late, until ten, and decided to turn on a movie, something funny because I felt the need to laugh that day, and got a glimpse of the news on before the tape--yes, a tape!--turned on and thought, "Huh, the news isn't usually on at this time of day. ...That means something really bad has happened. Do I really want to know about it yet?" and sat there deliberating for at least two minutes before deciding that, yes, I did want to know and turned back to the TV just in time to see them replaying footage of the planes crashing into the towers). Not only that, but I remember the absolute fear that invaded everything after that. People were scared to go grocery shopping, or step out of their houses, because there was the fear of "what if that's just the first stage in a massive plan to attack us?" My mom was on a business trip on the East Coast (she'd been in New York and D.C. for parts of her trip) and had to drive across the country with several of her coworkers because they couldn't get a flight for at least a week.
After a while, though, it's not like people went back to normal. It's like there was a reset. That baseline of fear became the new normal and people learned to live with it. I think that's why the surveillance stuff became not such a big deal, because there was that constant low-level fear and the surveillance gives people the notion that the government is doing something. What, they can't precisely tell you, but they're doing something and that's what matters the most! It allows people to ignore the fear most of the time. It's still there just below the surface, though. The recession afterwards just cemented in people's minds that things are worse and there's a lot of reason to be afraid these days. And of course, people don't want to examine their fears that closely (human nature) so it's much harder for them to see that, in many ways, they've created the very reasons they're afraid.
What a strange time to be just getting into adulthood. No ability to affect outcomes (I had not been old enough to vote in the previous election) but old enough to have many aspects of my life changed because of those events and the fallout from them.
And I do remember the night I heard on the news that we were going to be invading Iraq. I actually yelled at the TV, "What? No!" Again, I was old enough to see how it would be impacting my generation without being old enough to actually change things. That sucked. When it was (surprise!) revealed that the information we invaded them off of was false I was like, "Of course it was!"
And oh, how quickly people forgot just who the architects of those wars were, and began blaming Obama for all of it. Fickle, stupid people looking for someone to blame for their fears, no matter how illogical.
It's weird that my experience of the world is completely different from yours when I'm not much older. There's, what, maybe 6 years' difference in our ages? We're part of the same generation, I guess, (I'm in the weird 'maybe a Millennial maybe not' cohort) but my perception has been shaped in ways that yours really hasn't.