At some point in the last couple of years, I followed a link from this forum to a fashion blog, and now for the life of me I can't find it. Its author was a middle-aged woman with short fair hair, and it regularly featured readers who'd sent in photos of their outfits. It had a "you do you, there are no rules" vibe and wasn't too consumerist. I think the author may be a professional stylist.
Probably a long shot, but if someone knows the blog I'm describing I'd love to find it again :-)