What do you think of what seems to me, nowadays, to be an inevitable follow-on to a tragedy: Setting up a "GoFundMe" or similar platform to raise funds for the victims or their families? Did this always happen before at a local level, just more privately like connecting money in a bucket or envelope, since it was not broadcast via social media? I'm talking about cases where someone's house burns down, they get a horrible disease or injury, they are killed, etc., and then a GoFundMe drive is launched to raise funds for rebuilding the house, paying for medical expenses, funeral expenses, and so on.
It seems that in a non-trivial number of cases I see, the people in question are suffering from some combination of actual tragedy compounded by poor decision-making. For example, one thing I frequently see is that the people in question did not have insurance. Or any savings to meet completely foreseeable, potential problems. So, yes, it completely sucks their house burned down or they got sick, but's what with not having insurance?
I've never been hit personally with any requests, so I'm not sure how I'd react if someone I knew closely launched something like this. I suppose for most of us it would be a case-by-case basis on deciding whether or not to contribute?
Plus these things seem really ripe for abuse. Besides the possibility of "taking advantage" in a tragedy, some are just outright frauds. In my city just last week, there was a real tragedy and then some fraudsters completely unconnected to the victim launched a fund drive in the victim's name. How would you know if something was legitimate or where the funds go?
So what do you think, has anyone ever donated to such requests or would you? Is the advent of these fund-raising platforms eroding personal responsibility?