to each their own. I'm not a fan of apartments or the "inner city" either, my ideal is a city neighborhood with a just big enough house and a small but pleasant fenced yard, mature trees, sidewalks and a park in the neighborhood. if I spend too much time in suburbia (which to me means car-dependent, primarily chain businesses and chain restaurants and strip malls, big parking lots which make walking anywhere unpleasant and also people look at you like you're a homeless weirdo if you bike or walk) I feel nauseous and depressed. kind of like when I spend too much time in air conditioning, which is probably related. good thing there's something for everyone :)
actually, I really like the suburb I grew up in and would also like to live somewhere like that again. it's a little different because it started life in the 1800s as a lake/vacation town for the city, and only later as the city grew became an actual suburb. so it has a cute downtown with local businesses, and surrounding neighborhoods that are actually walkable and bikeable, and older houses with character... and a lake with a bike path and beaches... man I love that place :)