No one has mentioned carseats yet...
I would take one from a family member, but Momma has a strict 'no used carseats policy'. So we pay $$$ for them new.
I personally think this whole thing is overblown. If you inspect the car seat and the plastic is sound, I don't see why it matters all that much. The reasoning manufacturers use is that you don't know if the car seat has been in a prior accident. But what does that necessarily mean? What if I drop the car seat, which happened a few times? If it was a minor accident, I don't imagine the trauma to the could be any more detrimental than dropping the car seat. If it's a major accident, I'm guessing the car seat would show damage.
I don't know. I never used a used car seat that wasn't from a friend, but I donate car seats to a charity. As long as they are not expired, they will take them and people will use them.
I sure hope it's overblown. DH and I are talking about starting a family, but we don't own a car and don't live in walking distance of the hospital I would go to for L&D. We would use a car seat perhaps a total of two times in the first year of a baby's life (barring a middle-of-the-night ER visit)--to leave the hospital (in a taxi), and to travel to our hometown for a holiday (in a rental car). Part of me thinks -- why even own a carseat? Couldn't we just borrow from someone? but isn't that essentially the same thing as finding a used one?
tl;dr I'm currently grappling with how car-free people transport infants in cars without buying a $$$ carseat...
But before I foam this thread....
It seems like there are three running threads of thought with varying degrees of risk/ick tolerance:
1. Relatively cheap items that may be slightly germ-y (pacifiers, toothbrushes, etc.) (I know people who are icked out by used shoes)
2. Non-cheap items that have been in or near bodily orifices (menstrual cups, sex toys, underwear?)
3. Expensive items whose safety
may be compromised after being used (car seats, tires, etc.)
As with many things, the "should" of this thread's title is highly dependent on each individual's risk/ick tolerance. While I would likely not use someone else's menstrual cup, I have no problem borrowing a car seat from a credible source or sterilizing a used toothbrush.