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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #1 on: December 27, 2016, 07:46:14 AM »
It's hard for me to consider some of these folks retired since their spouses are working and earning.

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #2 on: December 27, 2016, 07:53:02 AM »
Good article, thanks for the link.

It's hard for me to consider some of these folks retired since their spouses are working and earning.

Depends if they need the income or not.  The one lady who quit to be a stay at home mom didn't seem ER'd, but the other person who quit and they had rentals did, despite the spouse still working.

A couple with $0 saved, and one of the two quits to be a stay at home parent while the other keeps working, I wouldn't say retired, I'd say "quit to be a SAH parent."

A couple with $1MM saved (and < 40k annual spend) and one of the two quits to be a SAH parent, I would say they "retired to be a SAH parent".

So depends on the financial situation.

If you need the income from the spouse, you didn't retire, IMO (and even under MMM's definition).
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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #3 on: December 27, 2016, 11:33:16 AM »
It's odd how the article makes it sound like early retirement is some terrible burden. 

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #4 on: December 27, 2016, 11:44:23 AM »
It's odd how the article makes it sound like early retirement is some terrible burden.

It's tough, I tell ya, getting to do whatever I want, all the time.

Man I long for the days where I had to go to work day after day.  I mean, everyone hates the weekends, and loves Mondays, right?  So why would you want a perpetual weekend, and never get that thrill of a Sunday night "I get to work tomorrow" feeling?

Early retirement is for suckers.


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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #5 on: December 27, 2016, 11:54:35 AM »
It's odd how the article makes it sound like early retirement is some terrible burden.

It's tough, I tell ya, getting to do whatever I want, all the time.

Man I long for the days where I had to go to work day after day.  I mean, everyone hates the weekends, and loves Mondays, right?  So why would you want a perpetual weekend, and never get that thrill of a Sunday night "I get to work tomorrow" feeling?

Early retirement is for suckers.


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I'm just going to take that purely at face value, no sarcasm, since it's artificial Monday for me. 

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #6 on: December 29, 2016, 08:38:34 PM »
Early retirement is for suckers.


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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #7 on: January 04, 2017, 01:34:11 PM »
Good article, thanks for the link.

It's hard for me to consider some of these folks retired since their spouses are working and earning.

Depends if they need the income or not.  The one lady who quit to be a stay at home mom didn't seem ER'd, but the other person who quit and they had rentals did, despite the spouse still working.

A couple with $0 saved, and one of the two quits to be a stay at home parent while the other keeps working, I wouldn't say retired, I'd say "quit to be a SAH parent."

A couple with $1MM saved (and < 40k annual spend) and one of the two quits to be a SAH parent, I would say they "retired to be a SAH parent".

So depends on the financial situation.

If you need the income from the spouse, you didn't retire, IMO (and even under MMM's definition).

I kind of feel that if both can't retire then the one that quits just simply quit and is not retired like you say above, but the gray area I guess is if the couple has 40k spend and 500k then couldn't it be argued that the one that quit/retired is living off of a 4% SWR for their share and the other is working to pay their share - I mean this is how it works for single/non-married people.....of course with marriage half of the $500k would still belong to the other spouse unlike with single people.

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #8 on: January 04, 2017, 04:25:43 PM »
Yes, I agree, except in the case that they split their finances. If combined finances, both would need to be able to ER (and one not because they like their job) for the one stopping work to be "retired" and not just "quit."

Even under MMM's definition, FI is a prerequisite for "retired."

If they have split finances, and the one is FI, and the other not, that's fine, as long as the ER'd one is living off their stache, not off the other's work.

(I've always thought split finances in a marriage is weird, but it works for some.)
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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #9 on: January 24, 2017, 01:43:00 AM »
It's odd how the article makes it sound like early retirement is some terrible burden.
Sometimes it is hard to get up the motivation to put down the guitar and even leave the house. :D

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #10 on: January 24, 2017, 09:25:10 AM »
It's odd how the article makes it sound like early retirement is some terrible burden.
Sometimes it is hard to get up the motivation to put down the guitar and even leave the house. :D

Oh you poor baby lol

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #11 on: January 24, 2017, 10:58:59 AM »
It's odd how the article makes it sound like early retirement is some terrible burden.
Sometimes it is hard to get up the motivation to put down the guitar and even leave the house. :D

Oh you poor baby lol

Yes, my heart bleeds for you. 

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Re: NY Times early retirement article
« Reply #12 on: January 24, 2017, 11:59:54 PM »
It is certainly a hurdle I will have to overcome. Thank you all for your support. :D