People discover the FIRE community, start trying to save as much as possible, and over time learn their personal limits and find their own personal balance when it comes to spending.
Wait...how is that any different from the rest of us?
I really despise when it's described as "quitting" just because someone decides to take a more moderate approach.
Because of my involvement with the community here I actually plan on working longer and spending more on travel along the way.
Each person's best life looks different. If these people learned how to live their best lives through closely examining their spending and investment options, then they are FIRE success stories, not failures, as they will now be able to retire on their own terms on their own timelines as opposed to being work slaves to mindless spending and retiring when their high fee financial advisor tells them they can and outlines to them what they can afford.
This community isn't about a race to a finish line, it's about learning what money really is in your life and taking responsibility for it.
What irritates me most about these articles is that they so brutally misrepresent what the community is actually about, which could hold people back from discovering truly helpful and valuable perspectives that are largely moderate and practical.
Had I not discovered this community when I did...
Ugh, I really don't like to think about it. My case is extreme as I didn't know how sick I was when I started working, but in no uncertain terms, the decisions this community has empowered me make have changed my life to a point that it probably saved me from a wheelchair.
These people probably owe a lot of their future happiness and health to having been young workers in the age of FIRE.