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msilenus

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Economical wedding planning
« on: July 25, 2014, 01:33:05 PM »
This is a fun frugal wedding guide in that it dips a little bit into economic theory to explain the logic behind some of the tips.

I just realized that maybe it's unusual that I find that fun.  Well, in any event, it has lots of points worth considering if you're planning a wedding.

http://www.vox.com/2014/7/25/5884435/wedding-planning-tips-from-economics

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Re: Economical wedding planning
« Reply #1 on: August 14, 2014, 01:47:22 PM »
This was a fun read.  There are a lot of repeated points seen elsewhere, but like you mentioned, I liked the economics perspective mentioned, especially in number 6.  The more you can re-use and recycle from others, the better off your wallet will be. One does not (hopefully) have the economic efficiency of an assembly line alone, but can gain efficiency when teamed up with others.

I always sort of wonder about the point made in #4.  It's easy to purchase a suitable item that is not designated for weddings because you simply hand over money for an item.  The seller doesn't care why you're buying it if your money is good.  But it's not really possible to do the same with services.  I think an event planner will quickly figure out you are planning a wedding because, ya know, they're planning it.  A DJ or caterer is going to show up and obviously see a wedding come the day of the reception.  I've read multiple stories online about photographers not being told the event they were hired to shoot was a wedding in hopes of the couple saving money, and it leading to a lot of issues (not enough or incorrect equipment, no time to plan ahead for individual photos, missing "required" shots because they didn't bring a secondary photographer) and some angry feelings.  I think you have to play this one by ear and be considerate of vendors if you use them.

EDIT:  I'm dumb.  I reread #4 and the author actually addresses this concern.

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Re: Economical wedding planning
« Reply #2 on: August 17, 2014, 11:34:19 PM »
What the author doesn't address about his "Don't buy a "wedding" anything" tip is that "wedding" stuff comes with higher expectations around service and reliability.  If you're buying a wedding cake, you're supposedly paying extra for the right to micro-manage, and for a driver who will get the cake there on time even if your date turns out to have an unfortunate conflict with Armageddon.

That's not to say that I think people should buy wedding cakes for their weddings.  Seems better to just chillax.

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Re: Economical wedding planning
« Reply #3 on: August 18, 2014, 09:24:51 AM »
A truly academic and mustacian wedding read is:

All Dressed in White, the Irresistible Rise of American Wedding   http://www.amazon.com/All-Dressed-White-Irresistible-American/dp/014200216X

This book breaks down all the wedding "traditions" that we cling to and traces them back to the rise of conspicuous consumption by high-society in the Victorian age that was ramped into hyper-drive during the 20's and 30's.  All of the "traditions" that we hang onto are not that old, and are repeated by the endless marketing machine as a wallet emptier. 

Amazing book and highly recommended for any mustachian bride. 

 

Wow, a phone plan for fifteen bucks!