In our current environment, I have zero friends. Mrs. Walt has a few through school. I appreciate the ideas, however. We have spent a lot of time trying to make family-level friends through soccer, basketball, skiing, mountain biking, school, etc. None of that has really worked out, I think we're too nerdy and weird.
Agreed that we should be throwing money at this (we are nominally FI, though we both still work to varying degrees), and that we should be ok with renting. The reality is, however, that our current rental has worked out so badly (this is our first time ever renting a home) that we're hesitant to go down that road again. Finding a rental large enough for our family is also a challenge. Nevertheless I am pushing to GTFO at the holiday break. Mrs. Walt has committed to a variety of things at school (mathematics lead teacher, robotics coach, etc) that she would feel bad about dropping so that's probably the biggest hangup at this point.
I think we've decided that ski towns are not a fit for us, so IMO we need to cut bait and leave ASAP. Inertia is a bitch, though.
-W