Our younger child that we moved to private school is doing GREAT. It has been excellent for her mental health, she's actually learning, she's regaining her confidence. She's ahead in reading and behind in writing and math and the school has a plan to help her get back on track without stressing her out or destroying her confidence. We have to decide this week if we're enrolling her next school year and almost certainly will.
Our 3rd grader is still plugging along at public "distance learning" school not learning anything but not having a mental breakdown either. We're coming up on a year of minimal education at this point and the numbers for learning loss came out and they're astoundingly bad. Far far worse than just the summer slide. I'm not sure where our son specifically stands, but just observing what he's doing, I think his writing has suffered the most. Some stuff I look at and think that maybe he has dysgraphia.
So now we're back to considering private school for him too. Our district can't even get it together to open, and they're not even committing to opening in the Fall. For a hot second there was a "after the kids are vaccinated" demand which I think got shut down pretty quickly. I can't even imagine what kind of disaster the next 18+ months of trying to get kids back on track is going to look like. It can't possibly be good.
I feel you here. I'm in So Cal, and it's fascinating. Our district is fully remote. The things I've seen on social media:
- Parents complaining that schools aren't open, when they are letting their kids throw parties (unmasked), go to the beach with friends, go on vacation with others.
- Some of these parents then putting their kids in private schools
- Teachers who have been ready to go back...forever
- Teachers who are already back on campus (without students) who are fearful every day of COVID.
- Teachers who insist that their students are GREAT and remote is fine. (Including one who sends her kid to private school...that is open.)
- Parents who complain that teachers are phoning it in, and remote school is a joke.
- Parents who say that remote school is awesome.
- Teachers who insist they cannot POSSIBLY go back until they are all vaccinated (which was literally never in the plan)
- Teachers who insist parents just want to send their kids to school to socialize, and be masked 6' apart from others (um, how about actual school?)
- Teachers and parents who truly worry that the kids with learning loss are also the families at more risk from COVID
A number of our public elementary schools in smaller districts have been open in hybrid for months now, and zero cases of spread at school. Yet, our teacher's union resists.
For some of us, it's working fine, not great.
For others: a disaster.
You literally aren't going to make everyone happy.
I have no control over, so I've gone all zen.
My third grader is fine. No learning loss, but he has his parents to work with him daily while we WFH. He started the school year 2 grades ahead in math and ELA, and probably still is. He hates writing, always has, still does. But he's read all of the Percy Jackson, Harry Potter, and Hunger Games books.