Pretty much filled with shit is correct. We use it for entertaining, which is fun, but the house is just a cluttered mess and I can't fix it. Always something to fix.
Doesn't matter than there are 10 rooms in the house, the kids want to be where the action is, where the adults are.
But, my frustration, we look at various cost savings, or what an activity costs for the day... and even if we spent $250 on a weekend activity (which would be pretty extravagant), it's still LESS than I spent on housing that weekend... and that makes me ill.
We followed my in-laws advice (who got financially trapped in their starter town home), which was foolish, my far more successful parents were adamant we should get a starter home... Our concern was prices were going up 20% per year, and you knew it was going to stop, but you didn't know when. We figured if it crashed and we were in our "permanent" house we'd be alright, but if it crashed and we were in our starter home we'd be screwed.
But I would like to downsize to a 1200 Sq. Ft. Apartment... I loved planting the garden around our house, but I never feel I have the time to finish the home projects, always something coming up... Oh well.
When business boomed, my business partner moved into a bigger house, we paid off $50k in credit card debt I had from a business failure. He told me I needed to look into getting a bigger house, I told him he was nuts, I'm staying right where I am. As business cooled off, he's screwed, and we're still humming along, balance sheet improving every month, just not as fast as I'd like.