I am sure some of you have seen my previous posts about deciding if we should move or not. This move would be purely a lifestyle decision, we do not need to move for our jobs and plan to stay in the immediate area.
Our current home is on a small cul de sac, one acre lot, about 2100 sq ft with me, husband and a 12 and 15 year old.
I have had the itch to move for the last year. I would like somewhere to walk (outside of the cul de sac is a busy road) and we have an interstate behind us that is pretty loud.
We have had the hardest time finding something we like below 550-600k. Surprising since to me that is a huge amount of money, but the market here is definatly a seller's market.
We are looking for something a bit bigger, maybe 3000 sq feet, with teenagers and me working from home the space would be nice, but not necessary.
So my dillema is of course, moving in itself is going to cost a big chunk of money, even if we find something similar in price.
I really wanted to move now and not move again until we were like 70s and needed something small and low maintenance, but now I am thinking maybe we need to focus on the next 10 years, kids will be out of college and probably not back in the house at that point. That being a point in time that we downsize and splurge a little now on getting something a little bigger and in a more social neighborhood for them during these teen years.
Of course there is always trade offs, we would have less wiggle room for travel and other luxuries. Combined income is 250k. We max 401ks and have money for college set aside, my husband also will have a pension in 6-10 years.
So my question is how much would you pay for a bigger neighborhood, for your kids to have the possibility to make more friends, more walking and biking space?
And is my thinking faulty to think of finding something more expensive for the next 10 years and then when we probably are close to retirement which is right about 10 years and we will be in early 50s, then decide to downsize and have less housing costs?
My parents think I should be looking for something we can "age" into like something one story, minimal steps now.....i think that really limits our options and while I love the idea of not moving again, is that really practical? My other worry is we move and the kids still don't make friends and it really does not help us feel more connected or them have any more to do.
Even before CoVID I have found not having a neighborhood or friends right here really difficult, all of their friends are 15-20 minutes away, and it is frustrating for all of us. (they go to a charter school and I homeschool one child).
Anyone that has answered my posts previously, I am sorry for my ranting. I am just at a loss of what to do, we have been mulling this over for almost 8 months....