My daughter is starting kindergarten next year, and I can't decide if she should take the bus or if I should drive her in. It's a private school, so the bus is provided through the public school. Between the spread out rural bus route and waiting at the public high school for a second bus, it will take about an hour and twenty minutes, one way. With how long it takes her to get ready in the morning, she'd need to get up at 6. Whereas if I drive her directly it only takes 15 minutes, one way, which is pretty much the same as her "commute" to pre-school now. When she gets to high school it'll be about a half an hour drive, or it would add about 15 minutes to the bus ride.
My husband went to this same school (as did his dad), and says it wasn't that bad. He'd sleep, read or do homework. But it seems like a ton of time on a bus to me, especially for a 5 year old.
There is one other potential option, though I'm worried it would be too awkward/inappropriate to ask. My husband's aunt lives two doors down from us, and she's the music teacher at this school. I don't know if her schedule means she needs to be there before the start of the day, but if it does, we could ask her if she could take our daughter in and give her gas money. Or is that too weird to ask?
Also, her going to the public school wouldn't completely solve this problem, as the bus ride there is still at least 45 minutes when it takes me 15 minutes to drive there. Plus, it really is a terrible school education wise, so we'd move to another district if private school wasn't an option.
Thanks for your thoughts!