Absolutely NO judgment to anyone with small kids who needs help, especially at night!
We have two girls, spaced a few years apart, and they're older now, but those first years for each were tough. We both work, we both were super involved with the babies, and we tag teamed it all, and even with both of teaming up, we never got enough sleep. I would feed the baby in the morning and she would frequently throw up all over me, so even mornings sucked.
Many people have mothers and MILs and such helping out, and no one calls that "outsourcing." Not everyone is able to get that sort of help, so they have to pay for it.