Author Topic: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM  (Read 6529 times)

BPA

  • Handlebar Stache
  • *****
  • Posts: 1202
My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« on: March 14, 2013, 04:10:16 PM »
I've talked to him about MMM several times before and he happened to be sitting next to me when I took a look at the pictures of the MMM's house and he really liked it.  He'll sometimes ask me, "So how's that Canadian frugal guy who lives in Colorado doing?"  And now he's interested in MMM's family, particularly his son.

He got kind of panicked that I might ask him to give up his xbox and xbox live in the spirit of mustachianism.  I pointed out Little MMM's toy room and said, "See.  He has toys and even a cool bike too.  He doesn't go without.  It's just not insane, knee deep clutter of toys like you used to have when you were his age."

He has organizational issues and I've been forcing minimalism on him.  At first he resisted, but now he likes it.  In his room he has a bed, bedside table, tv, xbox, clothes in his closet, and one big rubbermaid container filled with games and movies he likes.  Once there is too much stuff in the container, he needs to sell or give something away.  He likes that he can find his favourite things.  In some ways, I guess it's like his own 100 Thing Challenge.

So, I think he understands better now that consumerism is about choices and that more is not necessarily better. I hope so anyway.

William

  • Stubble
  • **
  • Posts: 194
  • Age: 34
  • Location: Nebraska
    • First Quarter Finance
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #1 on: March 14, 2013, 07:03:53 PM »
Sounds like you're doing something right.  My advice as a 23-year-old is that you should remind him that from year to year his interests will change.  He will not care about the possessions he is drooling to get today but he will miss the money tomorrow.

Money never gets old or forgotten.

BPA

  • Handlebar Stache
  • *****
  • Posts: 1202
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #2 on: March 14, 2013, 07:46:27 PM »
Sounds like you're doing something right.  My advice as a 23-year-old is that you should remind him that from year to year his interests will change.  He will not care about the possessions he is drooling to get today but he will miss the money tomorrow.

Money never gets old or forgotten.

I'll let him know that.  Thanks.

The xbox itself is rather versatile.  He watches netflix on it too. 

Self-employed-swami

  • Handlebar Stache
  • *****
  • Posts: 1090
  • Location: Canada
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #3 on: March 17, 2013, 10:03:27 PM »
Your son is such a peach :)

Mrs MM

  • Administrator
  • Bristles
  • *****
  • Posts: 367
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #4 on: March 22, 2013, 10:56:47 AM »
Very cool!  It's great that you're talking to him about this stuff and easing him into it.  He'll grow up to be a fine Mustachian!  :)

psychomoustache

  • Bristles
  • ***
  • Posts: 284
  • Location: Brittany France
  • American expat in France
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #5 on: March 22, 2013, 11:02:15 AM »
I have three sons - I think they really like the idea of being independent - to be able to live life on their own terms - that's what fascinates them in mustachianism.

They also like the challenges - most of the time. Cleaning things themselves, learning to cook, using (discreetly) their middle finger while grocery shopping (lol)

My eldest is 18 and wants to be a philosophy major in college...so mustachianism is kind of going to be a necessary skill set : )

BPA

  • Handlebar Stache
  • *****
  • Posts: 1202
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #6 on: March 22, 2013, 11:40:00 AM »
ha ha ha  I have no idea what my son might do career-wise.  He's leaning towards being a Child and Youth Worker since he understands getting into trouble and he is good with kids younger than he is, but the pay for those jobs isn't very much, so learning frugality will be a necessary skill set.  He sat with my brother and me the other day as we completed our taxes for last year.  He was mystified that Mom makes way more money than Uncle, but Uncle gets money back and Mom has to pay.  "How do you survive on so little money?" he asked.  Uncle has no kids, no car, and cheap rent.  A lesson in mustachianism.  (At the risk of sounding really sexist, Uncle is also gay and thus has no girlfriend.  My son has already experienced how wanting to impress a girl might cost him some cash.)

And thanks to everyone who responded.  He is a sweet kid. 

The Taminator

  • Stubble
  • **
  • Posts: 132
  • Location: Toronto, Canada
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #7 on: March 22, 2013, 12:17:35 PM »
Yes, but Uncle may want to impress a boy at some point. This can also cost money. I know lots of gay men who want to be romanced by another, just like a lot of women, gay or straight.

BPA

  • Handlebar Stache
  • *****
  • Posts: 1202
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #8 on: March 22, 2013, 01:49:49 PM »
I doubt it. ;)  He even had a column in Xtra magazine about his issues with dating.

He's 36 and a confirmed bachelor. 

Richard3

  • Bristles
  • ***
  • Posts: 292
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #9 on: March 30, 2013, 04:30:31 PM »
Yes, but Uncle may want to impress a boy at some point. This can also cost money. I know lots of gay men who want to be romanced by another, just like a lot of women, gay or straight.

Darling, you're hanging out with the wrong kind of gays. :)

BPA

  • Handlebar Stache
  • *****
  • Posts: 1202
Re: My 14 Year Old Son's Observations of MMM
« Reply #10 on: March 31, 2013, 09:32:02 AM »
Yes, but Uncle may want to impress a boy at some point. This can also cost money. I know lots of gay men who want to be romanced by another, just like a lot of women, gay or straight.

Darling, you're hanging out with the wrong kind of gays. :)

ha ha Just read this to my brother who said, "Yeah.  I'd never be attracted to one of those types who complain, 'I want shiny things!  You never take me out to dinner!'"