Iowajes, the OP asked for a critique of her parenting style, concerned that her children were being "spoiled". Some rightfully had issue with the word "spoiled", preferring "entitled" instead. Many jumped on the TVs-in-every-room topic, which most agreed was not a great idea. It was thought by several that the pre-school seemed like a reasonable value for what was provided. Some offered some positive solutions: chores, volunteer work, etc. The Chick Fil-A topic jumped out at me for a number of reasons as I previously stated: economics, health and the company's previous (and possibly corrected by now) anti-gay stand. When any of us ask for feedback on anything here, it does invite comments that might be inconvenient. And honestly, if people wish to feed their children fast food, well it's their deal. My kids have certainly gone to and had a good time at Chuck E. Cheese birthday parties and while I haven't lost my mind over it, I wouldn't choose to go there otherwise. I don't patronize Walmart for a variety of reasons, but do understand the reasons people do.
Anyhow, I've enjoyed the topic the OP brought up, and all the responses so far. I'm always learning and making tough decisions, and appreciate others doing so too, not just going along with whatever the status quo might be.