we had out mini mustache a month ago, and since this is America, even for all our greatness and low taxes, my wife only gets 6 weeks of paid leave (60% pay, technically having a baby is a disability) and 6 weeks of unpaid. we're shopping day care rates to start in 3 months, and it's looking like it's going to cost between $1000 and $1200 a month!
we've done the math, and she wants to go back to work, plus it's financially viable that she does. we'll get to contribute some pre-tax money that stays tax free as long as it pays for daycare, but they have a $5k/year max. but the rest of it will come out of pocket. So they way I figure it, there goes our whole after-tax investment money.
anybody have any suggestions for making this more tolerable? besides knowing that we moved to this area in the best school district (seriously ranks higher than private schools) my thought is by the time kindergarten rolls around, that cost goes away and we reap savings from what we would have spent on school (2k a month).
Well, I don't know what to tell you other than...
Think about your child, and how important they are to you. And - how important their care is to you. You want them to be safe, well fed, entertained, cared for - hopefully by a professional, no? For 40 hours a week (or 30, or 50, or whatever), there is someone doing that for you.
So what is that worth to you?
What is the caregiver's experience worth to you? Like any job, you have people who are trained and good at it, or not.
Both of my boys were in home daycares. First was highly recommended by friends. It was a large home family daycare. My son had a great time there, got to play outside in the dirt. It wasn't particularly educational but it was loving. It was also pretty reasonably priced for the time, about $165 a week (but that is in 2006 dollars).
My toddler has been in the same home daycare now for 3.5 years. While it started at $250 a week, it is now $16,640 a year ($320 a week).
Ouch, right?
Well, I have to tell you, it's a world of difference. The level of professionalism is that much higher. Her education is in child care. Her home daycare is small. They do a lot of educational crafts and projects. She really keeps up on things. She's amazing at caring for my son and the other kids there. It's like a family (added bonus, she's a close personal friend who I met when my older son, now 10, was born.)
I know it sort of sucks from a Mustachian standpoint, but you get what you pay for. I am paying an educated professional for her expertise. I could pay someone less, but around here, they probably wouldn't speak English. I am still able to save money (I make more than $16,640 a year). There are things I could do to lower the bill - try working from home, work nights, etc., but that's exhausting. My son is moving into pre-school in the fall (approximately $2000 a year less), and then will be in kindergarten.
It's short-lived, so that's the way to think about it. (Also, kindergarten is not free. YMMV, but there are costs for summer camp, and after school programs. Plus PTA donations to cover things that are not covered by the school. I'd estimate that the cost for my 4th grader is:
$900 after school care (per year)
$1000 summer camp
$2000 school donations
So at $4000, it's better than daycare, but not free!