Thank you for your replies.
My wife is a Norwegian. Like her parents are Norwegian (descendants of vikings) and she is born in Norway. She moved to the US to be with me in 2013.
I am not a software developer, but I do work in IT as a business analyst. I am not sure if I have qualifications that are hard to find...I have a master's in Industrial Engineering, and I can learn things quickly...perhaps now would be a good time to get into software development in some manner.
I am going to show these links to my wife and have her look at them. I am going to become an American citizen in 2019, after which I can visit Norway without a visa for up to 90 days. I am hoping I can go there, and figure out how to line up a job.