They don't need 12/12 to flower, although that's usually the schedule that is set indoors. In reality the plants start making a hormone to flower during darkness, and the hormone is disrupted/destroyed in light, so once the nights get sufficiently long the hormone will be able to reach critical concentration and begin the flowering phase. That usually starts happening around 14/10, but 12/12 makes it happen faster and so is really convenient to replicate indoors. The fall equinox happens around Sept 21-22 most years, so unless you live close to the equator you want your outdoor girls well into flowering before they ever hit 12/12.
Flowering is a gradual phase that happens over 7-14 weeks, depending on strain and environmental conditions. I am a little late to the party (thread started 3.5 weeks ago), but those pictures you posted are in the vegetative state and have not even begun flowering. You cannot identify sex until flowering begins.
I would estimate those plants to be a minimum of 8-10 weeks from harvest at the time you took the picture. No matter where on earth you live they should be significantly into their flowering phase by early September when you started the thread. Are they under a big a street light? Or a bright garage light, or some kind of light source that might be interfering with their night cycle? I hate to be the breaker of bad news, but those definitely look like they won't finish before winter sets in.
1) Yes. That's pretty standard (well, tarps and pvc hoops). If it gets really cold, you can run an extension cord out there and use a 100 watt incandescent in a work light cage.
2) No idea.
Using light as a heat source (during night) is a bad idea! They need total darkness to keep their hormone levels during the night time. Light interrupting their dark cycle will stress them, and if you have sufficient light can actually reverse their flowering and revert them back into the vegetative state, although these don't look like they ever left the vegetative state.