Duct tape - the heavy, rubberized kind. And then different gloves for different purposes.
I'm out on a few acres of rock in the country, and it's hard on gloves. I've looked for the same thing - gloves that will give me fine control and last against hard rock, and the reality is that they don't exist. Anything heavy enough to withstand rock is like using a robotic hand actuator, anything halfway thin just doesn't hold up.
I was absolutely tearing through gloves moving rock (basalt - so hard, rough... just abrasive stuff) until I figured out that I could protect the fingers of an old pair of gloves with heavy duct tape. A couple wraps (don't wrap it tight, you won't get your fingers in when sweaty!) on a worn out set of gloves gave me close to a year's worth of rock moving with them. They've eventually torn up in the palms, but for the sort of low dex, bulk movement stuff, they're great. I don't use them for fine work, just heaving and lobbing rocks. The duct tape is pretty well ripped apart by now, but you can always add more.
Otherwise, if you find a type that works, find some bulk packs online and order them.
You'll have far better luck with finding good gloves at a farm/country sort of store (D&B, Tractor Supply, etc) than you will at Home Depot or Lowes, though.