My fiance and I just bought our first home. It was built in 1948 and was owned by one couple until we bought it this winter. The home is a 1.5 storey, 3 br 2 bath home. Every wall is pretty much covered in wallpaper and there are 1 to 3 layers of paper. Our first DIY job was going to be to remove the wallpaper and paint in the living room, bedroom and kitchen. We have removed most of the wallpaper in the living room so far, and it was a big job, but also satisfying to complete on our own. We honed our effort on the living room because it is a big job and we haven't had as much time to work on it as originally thought. We have done what we have to date before we moved in. Now that we have moved in things are a bit more congested. We also have to do some thorough cleaning at our old apartment which will take away from our time to settle in/renovate the new house. My fiance and I are okay at the moment doing these things in stride and getting settled in slowly.
Now, I have a very helpful and financially comfortable family. They are not that interested in DIY (though probably were when they were a bit more fit and energetic) and they have trouble with the fact that this work we have to do will take us a lot of time and will probably lead to us being less comfortable in our home for a longer period of time. There have been multiple pushes for us to get quotes, and hire a painter to remove wallpaper, patch walls and paint. My fiance and I have been resisting and have put in the effort to remove most of the wallpaper in the one room, and soon we would like to try our hands at skim coating the ripped drywall bits, and ultimately painting and putting back up the trim and molding. Recently, pressure from the family has been mounting... My mom and aunt are prepared to pay for a painter to come in to remove wallpaper and paint the living room and kitchen as a housewarming gift. Mom insists there will be plenty of other DIY work for us to do around the rest of the house. This is true, but I think the satisfaction that comes from learning these new drywall skim coat and painting skills (we are now pro wallpaper removers) would be awesome. Fiance and I both work full time. That being said, I don't mind working on these sorts of things in the evenings. Also, fiance and I spent the whole of this past weekend moving to the house ourselves from our 3-floor walk-up apartment. It was pretty grueling but we did it ourselves and feel good about it.
TL;DR: This was a long story, but in short, would you push to learn new skills and have the satisfaction of doing it yourself, or accept a kind offer of a gift that would pay for the work that would take you weeks to complete to have a professional do it in days? Since someone else is paying, it seems Mustachian, but skips the whole learn-stuff-and-be-a-badass part.