All good advice above, although I am not sure I agree with those saying to sell the Frontier. Frontier's are super reliable, like Tacoma's. If this truck has been trouble-free I am not sure I would risk selling it and buying a "used Honda" or something similar. You never know what troubles you could inherit. Yes it's not great on gas mileage, but I would attack your commute first before ditching that truck, i.e. see if you can carpool some days at least, find a job closer etc.
Agreed on getting rid of the Pilot though.
Yes, I really love my Frontier and have had zero issues with it at 101,000 miles and still have not had to put new brakes on it! It will be paid off in March and will be the first vehicle that I have actually owned outright in my life! I know that is sad. Cars have been a big part of my problem - always trading for a new one or leasing ones when I was younger.
I do worry about selling it and getting an older Honda and then having issues that will need a cash outlay. But I know the equity in it could be used to pay off another debt.
Add up your car payments and vehicle maintenance since Oct 25, 2015.
Here is what I have into my 2006 Mazda. I removed performance parts that I bought, decided not to install, and am selling (so far at a profit). Note this includes two new sets of tires (winter and summer), as well as another set of wheels.
10/25/2015 Purchase price $6,000.00
10/25/2015 Dunlop Winter Maxx tires $542.50
10/26/2015 Tire install, alignment/AC/lug nuts $300.00
10/28/2015 Wipers/cabin air filter $49.22
11/3/2015 GROM stereo adapter $132.99
12/27/2015 ATF/PS fluid, oil filter $10.44
12/27/2015 Oil (12qt Mobil1 5w30) $59.90
01/10/2015 oil change @ 129,423 $0.00
03/13/2016 tire rotation @ 131,677 $0.00
08/23/2016 HVAC controls $30.00
09/14/2016 Sumitomo HTR ZIII tires $458.88
09/20/2016 RX8 wheels and center caps $219.99
09/20/2016 Sumitomo HTR ZIII's mounted/balanced $60.00
09/20/2016 Summer tires installed @ 132,595 $0.00
09/29/2016 Taillight $46.65
10/3/2016 Trunk carpet $65.00
10/04/2016 Bosch oil filter, ATF $19.24
10/04/2016 oil change @ 133,754 $0.00
11/18/2016 Snow tires installed @ 135,367 $0.00
12/31/2016 ATF $5.34
Just about exactly $2,000 -- and half of that was tires that will be good for several years. How much were your car payments plus maintenance?
That said, I'm not sure I would sell the Frontier. The Pilot, on the other hand...