Hi everyone: I've been a MMM forum reader for a while, but this is my first post.
The thing is...my finances are locked down. I have a low rate on a 15 year mortgage, pay off my credit card every month, and am saving/investing 40% of my take-home pay. I'm 36 with about 200k in assets and savings. It's been hard work, but I've enjoyed it.
THAT SAID, I am about to marry my SO, who has debt. A lot of it. And he wants me to be in charge of money for the household, since I'm 'good' with it and he isn't.
My problem is this: I've never had to deal with paying off significant levels of debt, and I'm not sure what the best strategy is. I was hoping you all could give me some advice.
His situation...
Child support: $1300/mo (thankfully, the kids are great)
CC #1: 8,000 (lower interest rate for financial hardship locked in for about 9 more months)
CC #2: 16,000 (higher interest rate)
Car payment: $10,000 (his ex-wife's car. Le sigh.)
Between the two of us, we will be making $150k. My housing is $1600/mo (mortgage, tax, HOA -- it's high, but I live in a high COL area and I'm putting a LOT into my principal). I can comfortably afford this, along with my other monthly expenses which are modest. While I don't want to cut back too much on my retirement savings (again, 40% of my take home pay), I would be willing to scale back a year or two in order to help us pay off these debts.
Some questions for you all:
- how long, given our money in/out, do you think it would take to pay off this 32k of debt? I'm hoping for 18 months -- reasonable?
- I'm planning on focusing payments on the highest interest rate bills first, while making the minimum payments to the lower interest rate debts. Is this the best strategy?
- Just to confirm: my SO only has $50k in a retirement fund (he's 48). He will also get a military pension for 7 years active service and 13 years reserves -- nothing to sniff at. The $50k bothers me, but I figure this should wait until we've paid off the debts. Right?
- Can you recommend any specific payment-tracking budget spreadsheets or apps? I know a lot of people here use YNAB. I am pretty hopeless with excel (English major right here) and have always done my money 'stuff' in a notebook with pencil and calculator.
What I'm trying to say is that this is the new level of budgeting and debt-paying than I am accustomed to, so I'd love to get advice or insight from anyone who has successfully tackled this amount before. Our goal is to buckle down for the next year or two to clear out these debts, so that we have the option/freedom to change our living situation. We currently both work pretty high-stress jobs in a major city, but we dream about a more relaxed lifestyle. The inevitable pay cut would be worth it for the increased quality of life, but that's not an option until this Debt. Is. Done.
Thanks, all!