Life situation:
I am a 38 year old who live with a relatively frugal SO with whom I have 3 children(age 4 and twins 3 months) in a Nordic country. We are both EU citizens. We live in a HCOL city in region that is by itself quite high cost and high tax. Actually, I believe that basic things (food, housing-cost) etc might be one of the most expensive in the world. My SO is also a stanch opponent to FIRE, but that is a different story. All figures will be for my half of our economy.
Gross Salary
Yearly $120k (2017), ca $130k (2018) of which 30-35k is bonus.
Pre-tax deductions: None
Taxes: $42k Total after tax (2017): $78K
Expenses:
We each pay a share of expenses divided on what we have in income. This means that I pay roughly 66% of these.
Shared expenses (below numbers is 66% of their actual costs):
Communal fee housing - $276 month
Child care (1 child) - $252 month
Food (and diapers etc) – $534 month
Total: $1062 month
“Personal expenses”
Interest on house loan (shared 50-50): $300
Car expenses (bike to work, but use car on weekends): $300
Food/restaurants inc. lunch at work: $72
Travel (SO comes from another European country): $120 month
Health related (had some dentistry work done): $104
Other (shared expenses paid by me, expenses for children: $ 223
Total: $1119
Amortization on the loan: $480
Expenses total: $2181 month
Total outflow: $2661 month
Internet and phone is paid by work
Assets:
After tax brokerage: 31k
After tax self owned investment company*: 275k
Value of home (my half): 361k
Private pension fund (from 62-72): 30K
Other pension(from 62 to end of life): 120k
Total assets (including home): 456k (817k)
Liabilities
Debt on home: 204k (2% interest)
Student loan: 30k (0,13% interest, I sh#t you not)
Total liabilities: 234k
Equity: 222k (583k)
It is cheaper to rent then it is to buy in our city, but SO will not accept to rent again, and we need to provide a stable life for our kids. Average price per m2 is $8400 in this city. Renting a similar abode would cost me ca $3 000.
*For tax purposes I have a company that I put all my after tax savings in. This is primarily to reduce capital gains tax which are high. I can also use the company to later take out money in the way I chose (repayment of the money I have lent the company, interest on that loan, dividends, salary etc), whichever is taxed the lowest. Could also use it to move to a low tax region (Portugal I am looking at you) and then take out the funds.
Questions:
What is my net worth? (what about that home!?)
Take into consideration that Private pension fund can only be accessed at 62 and needs to be paid out over 10 years minimum. And Other pension it is not clear how this will be paid out as it is not part of a pay-as-you go system.
Where am I spending too much?
What SWR are other Nordic/Europeans aiming at given that we have universal healthcare and free education (from age 6-7)?