I’m new to this forum, and just beginning to learn about the Mustachian way of life. We are a family of 4, dual earners, with high incomes in a very HCOL area. Running the numbers, it looks like we are on track to become financially independent, at our current spending rate, in about 10 years. But I’ve been thinking more and more about leaving my job to stay home with my kids (ages 5 and 7). When I think about what I would really like to do if financially independent, I see my current needs, not those 10 years from now. That is, what I would really like is to be home for my kids when they come home from school, to volunteer more in their schools, to have time to exercise and eat healthier, to not have to work more after they go to bed, and get more sleep. I’d be interested in exploring finding more meaningful work in education – I do not have a background in this area at all, but enjoy reading about education policy, research, and trends, and helping children learn is certainly more meaningful than my current work!
BUT, I am not a risk taker at all. And the fact is our current (very non-Mustachian) spending exceeds my spouse’s take home salary. And with my salary, we are currently able to save $96,000 per year for retirement ($36,000 in our 401ks, and $60,000 (or $5,000 per month) into a taxable Vanguard fund). We are also saving $19,200 per year total ($800/month for each child) for college for our 2 children. So I would be very worried about not being able to save.
So, I am posting info about our (I think) not-too shabby savings and also our crazy expensive spending to get input. I confess I really do not enjoy my current job, so that is driving a lot of my current angst. A big part of me thinks I should just stay the course for the stability and security it brings – after all, my job is flexible, allows me to be home for dinner virtually every night and have weekends off with my family (although I do put in after-hours time when kids are asleep on a not-infrequent basis). But part of me thinks that just when we are finally financially independent, my oldest will be leaving for college and I’ll be facing an empty nest and lack of purpose; whereas now, my children need me…
So, the numbers:
Assets:
Vanguard (includes 401k, IRAs, and taxable accounts): $1,196,597
529 accounts (combined total for 2 children): $148,632.72
Bank Checking + Savings: $224,904.79
Total Liquid Assets: $1,570,134.51
House Equity: $170,000 ($430,000 remaining on mortgage. Purchase price 10 years ago (market peak) was $647,000, but I think is worth only around $600,000 today)
2 cars bought with cash (2007 Subaru and 2011 Toyota)
No non-mortgage debt
Annual Savings:
Retirement: $96,000 (401ks and Vanguard taxable account)
College Savings: $19,200
Gross Income:
Me: $212,000
Spouse: $165,000
Annual Expenses:
Mortgage (includes property taxes and home insurance) $39,955.32
(2000 sq foot house in the city. The exclusive suburbs
surrounding us would be far more expensive.
Moving further out would mean hour + commute)
Travel/Family Fun $21,997.86 (yikes!)
(includes multiple ski trips w/lessons, trip to Costa Rica,
airfare for trip to see family, local excursions,
community memberships to zoo, aquarium, etc.)
Child Care Total (afterschool care, summer camp) $18,070
Shopping $12,729.28
(includes clothing, books, school supplies/school projects,
household goods, gifts, plus new refrigerator after old one broke)
Medical/Pharmacy (total after payroll deductions) $10,384.48
--Medical (after payroll deductions) $6,224.55
--Pharmacy $4,159.93
Groceries $9549.24
Utilities Total $8,467.72
-- Electric $3,057.71
--Oil $2,203.84
-- Water $482.37
-- WPCA $507.76
--Internet $719.40
--cell phone $911.07
--ADT (home security) $585.57
Insurance (total) $6,125.32
--Long Term Care Insurance $2,808.00
--term life insurance (me) $549.72
--term life insurance (spouse) $1,252.25
--Auto + umbrella insurance (2 cars) $1,515.35
Kids Activities Total $5,934.59
(includes Piano, soccer, cub scouts, dance, gymnastics,
swim lessons, school fundraisers and events, birthday parties)
Business Services Total $4,210.79
--Lawn Care $1,450.00
--Terminix $717.86
--Haircuts $484.80
--Dry Cleaning $222.60
--Home Maintenance/Repairs $1335.53
Restaurants $4048.35
(restaurants while on vacation are included
in the Travel line item, not here)
Car Total $3,288.28
--Gas $1,962.47
--Car Maintenance/Parking $1,325.81
Family Photos $928.12
Movies/NetFlix $645.91
I’d appreciate all thoughts, including baby steps we should take toward a more Mustachian lifestyle, etc.