As mentioned above by a previous poster, follow the Investment Order:
https://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/investor-alley/investment-order/msg1333153/#msg1333153
There’s no need to try to reinvent the wheel or feel that you are the special snowflake case. Keep your expenses low, don’t succumb to lifestyle inflation, use the investment order to help you figure out where to put all your extra money. Become FI, and then if you want to keep working for 20 years, do so happily as a SWAMI.
ETA: I’m speaking from experience here. With one job switch, we went from an annual net income of $33K to an annual net income of $136K. We used the investment order to get our finances in order. Within 5 years, we entered the double comma club, reached FI, and are now SWAMIs who work just cuz we want to and can quit when we want to. All this to say that the Investment Order works especially when you have a sudden jump in income.
Btw, there’s a bit of fat in your budget that you could cut if you want, without a significant reduction in your quality of life, but based on your questions, it sounds like that’s not really a priority at the moment?
Thanks for the feedback. Did not intend to imply I was special but just wanted to gather some thoughts and wasn't exactly sure if I could still contribute to a tIRA AND fully deduct it but it appears that question has been answered.
Your job switch sounds like it was a hell of an increase! Ours feels that way. Our household income has gone up so much in the past 3 or 4 years that it is pretty incredible to see. We are both fairly frugal so used cars and a "normal" house will remain the plan for us. I don't see us having lifestyle inflation much. By the way, what does SWAMI stand for?
As for our budget, we are always open to ways to trim the fat. What are your suggestions?
Yeah, my job switch was a huge increase. A couple years later, DH switched jobs, and our net income went to $180K per year. Now that we're FI and SWAMI, we don't feel a need to continue moving up, as any other increases in income in our fields = disproportionate increase in stress and responsibility. We're happy keeping our expenses at less than $30K per year and banking the difference.
SWAMI = Satisfied Working Advanced Mustachian Individual
Budget:
1. You're spending $870 a month on food. Check out the Groceries under $200/month thread for ideas:
https://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/share-your-badassity/have-a-sub-$200month-grocery-budget/They can be quite badass on that thread, but even if you could cut your food bill to $500, that would free up quite a bit of money.
2. Youtube/Netflix - do you really need to be spending $70/month watching TV?
3. Clothing - you're spending almost $1000/year on clothing. Consider shopping at thrift stores. For baby clothes, try Freecycle or other websites were you can give away the clothes your kids have outgrown / swap with other people. I didn't pay for any of DD's clothes until she turned five and we had to buy her a school uniform.
Those are the low hanging fruit in terms of expenditures. If you really wanted to ramp it up, you might also consider switching cellphone plans to something cheaper. If you're in the US, there is a thread on the forum about cheap phone plans.