Need some opinions on if anyone has had this issue, I am sure we are not the only ones.
We have been in our current home for 13 years. We need to stay in this immediate area, and overall we like the neighborhood and while we would like a little more square footage (2100 sq ft for 4 people), we are content and it is a beautiful home. A few years ago an interstate was built directly behind our lot, probably 1000 feet? It was not super noisy at first, but it has become much more heavily trafficked and the noise is constant all day. We have a gorgeous backyard on an acre and I love sitting out back relaxing and even sleeping on our deck. I spend at least a couple hours out here a day on my days off thursday through sunday. We also live in a single cul de sac without a neighborhood to walk through or other kids available. I know there are no guarantees that our kids would meet friends even in a bigger neighborhood, which is why we haven't moved before now, but they are 14 and 12 and it would be nice to have that possibility.
We owe 230k on our current home and could sell it for 400k. We are looking at a lot and building in a bigger neighborhood golf community with lots of kids and pool available, home would likely cost 500k.
We are 43 and 40 years old, combined income of 250k. Around 500k in retirement assets (I know that is low, but we have only made this higher income for the last few years). Husband will be retired military officer in 6 years, if all goes well his pension will be around 80k per year for life. I have calculated we would like to have 1-1.5 million in retirement assets and I think we can get there in 10 years. I already work part time, 3 days per week, and I would like for both of us to retire in 10 years. If we move we would likely try to pay off the new home the last few years of working by taking all of his pension money and putting on the mortgage. We do have savings set aside for girls college, but will probably cash flow some of it for their living expenses. No other debt besides our mortgage.
So....Is it worth moving because I am annoyed by road noise? My husband doesn't mind it because he never just "sits outside" and he is around jets all day, but it just grates on me. I love being outside and want a home with a peaceful outdoor living area and I hear trucks go by all day long. I'm just having a hard time swallowing the cost of an increased mortgage, and then the cost of moving with realtor fees and paying for movers will be at least 25k.
Also the elephant in the room the covid situation. I am in healthcare and never would have thought I would have reduced hours and pay, but I do for the next two months. Even with reduced pay we can afford the new house, and I know my pay will rebound in the next 6 months, but it is still unsettling. Unfortunately, there is very little land (we really want to build) where we want to live, so waiting 6 months is not ideal.
Anyone that did move because of noise issues was it worth it? Is it worth the increase in the mortgage payment (probably 500 per month more), and moving expenses? Thanks for any input!