An acquaintance/friend-of-a-friend recently passed away from cancer. I knew her, but wouldn't really call us friends, though she was good friends with one particular good friend of mine. Let's call this friend Jane.
Jane lives ~6 hours away from my city, where the funeral will be. She is constantly complaining about how tight money is, which makes some sense given her job and her husband's. What doesn't make sense is how they spend their money: soda and energy drink habits, subscriptions to those box-a-month things, giant vehicles, etc.
I feel bad that Jane probably won't be able to afford to go to the funeral, and I'm considering sending her money anonymously that would allow her to go. But, I can afford to do that because I don't spend money on the things she does. So, part of me thinks that not being able to go to a close friend's funeral is simply a result of wasting money.
If I don't send Jane money, I'm planning to give that amount to either a charity that the woman who passed valued, or to her widower (depending on what his instructions are for memorials).
So, what say you, Mustachians? What should I do?
And, also, if the vote is to send Jane the money, does anyone have an idea on how to send money anonymously?
Thanks much,
Mr Richards