Life Situation: I am 37 Married filing jointly. My wife is 35. We have two kids (7 and 10). The 10 year old is special needs. We live in Michigan. We both live about 25 miles away from work. With our daughter's needs, we are not interested in moving closer to our jobs as that would either land us in a much more expensive school district (housing costs) or in the city where the schooling is terrible and has almost no tailored special needs programs.
Gross Salary/Wages: I make $100,000 and my wife makes $80,000.
Pre-tax deductions: I contribute 12% to my 401k at work plus a 5% employer match. My wife contributes 10% plus a 1% employer match. $108/month to my FSA. Healthcare premium: $108/month
Other Ordinary Income: Small side jobs. Roughly $1,000/year.
Qualified Dividends & Long Term Capital Gains: none.
Rental Income, Actual Expenses, and Depreciation: no rentals or depreciation.
Adjusted Gross Income: $159,700
Taxes:Mine:
Federal: $672.19/month
FICA: $586.33/month
State: $243.09/month
Local: $33.60/month
My Wife:
Federal: $525.00/month
FICA: $468.00/month
State: $192/month
Current expenses:Groceries: $866/month
Gas/Vehicle Maintenance: $410/month
Property Taxes: $187/month
Cell Phones: $85/month
Gas/Electricity: $185/month
Water/Sewer: $76/month
Dining Out: $520/month (don't shoot me :) This number is stupid high, and we are packing all lunches now and eating at home as often as possible).
Insurances (Home/Auto/Life/Umbrella/Wedding Ring Set): $355/month
Tithe: $250/month
Entertainment: $60/month
Internet: $59.99/month
Health Insurance Premium: $108/month
Medicine: $20/month
Licenses: $25/month
Doctor/Dentist: $20/month
Gifts (Birthdays/Holidays/Weddings/Graduations): $163/month
Clothing: $100/month
Education/School Expenses: $15/month
Vacations: $358/month (We typically take a winter trip down South (to see the sun), and go up North a number of times over the summer)
Daycare: $593/month
Bank Fees: $2/month
Total (unless I forgot something): $4,457.99/month
Assets: Savings Account (at credit union): $66,000
Home: $168,000
2016 Subaru Legacy Premium: $22,500
2013 Ford Explorer XLT: 13,734 (paid off)
My 401k: $110,500 at MassMutual - They only offer one Index Fund - MM S&P 500 Index Fund (MIEYX - ER 0.47%). All other funds are significantly higher.
Wife's 401k: $31,600 at Vanguard - She is 100% in Vanguard 2060 Target Date Retirement Fund (VTTSX - ER 0.16%). Does not have the option of VTSAX.
Previous Job 401k (rolled over at Vanguard): $24,127 (100% in VTSAX).
Liabilities: We have no credit card debt. We have a 1st and a 2nd mortgage and one car payment (my wife uses this for traveling for work, so much of it is paid for in mileage reimbursement).
2016 Subaru Legacy $410.13/month (interest rate of 2.50%). We are currently paying $550/month on this. Balance is at $19,000.
1st Mortgage Minimum Payment $729.59/month (interest rate of 4.59%). We are currently paying $170/week on this, or $736.10/month. Balance is $104,146.
|---> Monthly P/I: Principal: $339.12, Interest: $396.98
2nd Mortgage Minimum Payment $253.52/month (interest rate of 6.77%). We are currently paying $277/week on this, or $1,200/month. Balance is $14,929.
|---> Monthly P/I: Principal: $1114.40, Interest: $85.60
Specific Question(s): Besides
GREATLY reducing our dining out expenses, I'd like to ask a couple of questions...
- How aggressively should I be paying off the 2nd Mortgage (I plan to pay this off and then refi the 1st)? Should I throw more at it a month or contribute more to investments?
- Should we be maxing out our 401ks to $18,000 each per year, or be doing something outside of our 401k's?
- How should we be preparing for the future if our daughter is unable to leave the home or retain a job? (She might be able to do these things in the future, I'm just not sure).
- Any change of approach suggestions you may have from the above.
Thanks for looking at this wall of text and any feedback you may provide :)