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Murse

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Poke holes in our new life plan
« on: June 25, 2019, 12:08:25 PM »
Hello everyone,

When I was in nursing school I was considering continuing to medical school. I have always had a deep internal desire to “win.” Then I found MMM who told me I could win by achieving FI. I decided instead of medical school (I would of finished residency at 32 YO at the earliest) I was going to maximize my income as a RN, save as much as possible and hopefully achieve FI by 32yo. I am now married and we are DINK’s. I started using mint a month ago and am appalled at what I found. 3700$/month of expenses. I didn’t realize we were spending over 40k/year. Around 15k of this is annual rent so we are living on around 30k/ year. I realized spending is only going to go up with time. We will eventually buy a primary residence and have children. With annual expenses currently at around 45k, I expect future costs to be at least 60kish when counting a mortgage and child-care costs and that is before healthcare. My current thinking is it would be more beneficial for us to coast to FI with a fairly relaxed work life balance then to go full steam ahead to hit 1.5-2m in net worth.



The new plan is to hopefully save 72k/year of our 140-150k gross income for the next 2-3 years then down shift as we start having children. We hope to have 500-600k in net worth at age 29-30. I will cut back on my hours likely making around 50k inflation adjusted and my wife will likely do odd jobs (she enjoys teaching children dance, makes 20$/hour but no way to predict how many hours she will work. We will then coast until either our investments grow large enough for us to be FI or I get a pension at age 50 pushing us to FI.

Current net worth is 270k. Tell me what you all think.

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Re: Poke holes in our new life plan
« Reply #1 on: June 25, 2019, 12:23:10 PM »
Sounds reasonable. I think a lot of people on here do something like this or at least consider it. My understanding is that nursing is a good profession for reduced hours, so you may be particularly well positioned to pull it off.

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Re: Poke holes in our new life plan
« Reply #2 on: June 26, 2019, 07:12:07 PM »
 Great idea to work less while you have an infant! Money grows back but time doesn’t! Plus if your wife stays home you might be able to reduce certain expenses like food. You might be able to cook and eat out less. Also depending on how much you spend on clothes you won’t need to buy professional clothes…  if your wife likes odd jobs, she might like mystery shopping or Care.com

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Re: Poke holes in our new life plan
« Reply #3 on: June 26, 2019, 07:20:07 PM »
I don't think medical school is worth what it now costs in tuition in the US, so I think your plan is an excellent one. Only go the med school route if that is your true passion and calling. Doctors are under tremendous pressure to work long hours even when they do not want to do so . . . it's a cultural expectation among MD's.

Also, RN's are in such high demand that you will always be able to find work and you will always be able to dictate your hours to some extent. There is just more of a culture of part time work in nursing. I have one RN friend who only worked on Sundays for many years while her kids grew up.

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Re: Poke holes in our new life plan
« Reply #4 on: June 27, 2019, 04:44:02 AM »
I think it sounds like a great plan, especially since a lot of healthcare professionals are often in no real rush to leave the field once we find a balanced and enjoyable way to work.

I dropped to part time 3 years ago and my satisfaction with patient care skyrocketed.

As a nurse you have such incredible flexibility and career options available to you as well, so it's not like you need to compromise your quality of work in order to cut back either.

Little kid years are tough, it's a great time to have more balance and focus more energy on home life.