So, my wife and I started on our FIRE journey about 3 months ago when we had a wake-up call that we didn't want to be doing this whole job thing for the rest of our lives. We wanted to actually live and enjoy our children and each other. We've been pretty pleased with the changes we've made thus far and feel really good about our new direction and plan to be FI in about 8 years, but there is one thing that keeps eating at me I just can't stay on-board with that my wife thinks we do.
About 5 years ago, right before we had our first child, we got suckered into the whole Indexed Universal Life policy for each of us. The advisor says "Blah blah blah," Us, "sure we'll take it! And wouldn't you know it, when you think about working for 40 years, you consider it an "investment" for your future and that of your children, so you sign up for more, one for each of the kids! And...oh why not get some whole life for yourself because you NEED life insurance and why not make it an investment for retirement too (no thanks said to that investment joker).
Ok, re-reading that made me sick. I've put a lot of money into all of these and realize it's probably better to get out, but I also know that there are some major penalties, surrender values, etc...
Here's our situation:
- IUL for me (5 yrs)
- IUL for wife (5 yrs)
- IUL for child #1 (3 yrs)
- IUL for child #2 (2 yrs)
- Whole Life for me (1 yr)
- Whole Life for wife (1 yr)
Pretty bad deal now that I look at it more. Anyway, I know now I probably never should have ventured down this path since we make great salaries and could have poured all of this into a simple index fund, but I'm at a cross-roads with explaining why and how we should get out to my wife and would really appreciate the knowledge and opinions of you fine mustacian folk.
Be gentle.
BatDad out, gotta fly