Hi Mustachians,
I've been a lurker for a long time and have not posted my situation yet.
I am an undergraduate student at a private university with a status of a senior. I used to have better financial aid and scholarships, when I first transferred from community college, but had to go on a break for health reasons. My gpa plummeted during this time so upon my return, I lost a lot of what I received in scholarships, grants, and financial aid. I was readmitted with medical restrictions, so I cannot attend as a full-time student (although it would be better financially) at the moment. The price per class is on the high side, probably $4000/class without any financial aid/grants/scholarships.
Before any suggestions of transferring, I have already looked into this option and it doesn't make sense to me. Most schools require you to take a certain amount of credits at their institution before you graduate - in this case it would be 3 semesters worth of full time classes. I only have about 4-6 classes until I finish. Also, since I transferred from a community college, I may already have capped out what I can transfer into another institution. I would probably have to retake courses if I transferred to the state university that I have already completed at my current university.
I figure that I am accountable for the time, money, and effort I already put in at my current university, whether I finish there or not. And since I am so close to finishing, it makes more sense for me to wrap it up there, although it may be much more expensive.
I live at home, which is about 11-12 miles away from my campus, so I find myself commuting back and forth every day. I really would love to move closer, but am wondering if it would be a smart financial move. Due to my health issues, I am restricted in terms of what I can take on as a job at this time. Is it worth it to take out loans for living expenses? Would there be side gigs I could do to maintain that?
I feel like I am spending so much money on gas to commute back and forth, even though I am not paying rent at this time, but the compromise is the time spent on the road. Then there is the piece about my healthcare and upkeep with that, since I regularly see my doctors, one on a weekly basis, the other monthly.
I am finding it difficult to engage with the on-campus community due to my far commute. What I find hard about biking or doing a combination of biking+public transportation from home is that I don't have a place to put my stuff when I get there (along with so much stuff to carry back and forth), especially because I need to transport a musical instrument.
There are days I have my doctor's appointments right before and after my classes, then I usually come back onto campus for office hours/tutoring. It is 8 miles from my home to my doctor's offices (this is about 40-45 minutes by bike ride, 1 hour on public transportation, and then about another 7 miles from my doctor's offices to my university (about 50 minutes by bike ride, 35 minutes by public transportation). It would take a lot of time to get to and from these places by bike or bike+public transportation.
I feel living closer to campus could solve an issue in terms of time spent getting to and from classes, in addition to being on campus for events and extra cirrculars. The way it's been lately, I've noticed that I will go home since my classes are in the morning and all the other events are in the evening. Also all of the stuff I tend to actually do are closer to my university (so I wouldn't be spending time commuting/taking up gas money).
I wish I could post a breakdown of my monthly expenses, along with my school loans, but another issue I run into is not having access to all my finances. I run into the issue of my mother won't give me all my mail or will open up my personal bank statements and personal credit card statements. When I ask for them, she will say they are around, but not hand them over. Then for my school, she has been my co-signer, but there are times where she has forged my signature to take out the loans in order to pay the tuition, without informing me. She tends to try to micromanage my finances for me, not taking the viewpoint of informing me and discussing it like two adults, but the entire point is that I should do it her way, and if I don't, then well, I'm on my own and she won't help me out anymore. She tends to be all in (micromanage, trying to control) or hands off (it's your life and you'll have to deal with the consequences, etc). Due to my health situation, I have been needing to rely on her for support, though it drives me to want to move out too.
Though with my health situation, it's not realistic for me to work full time and study full time, that would be a load I can't handle. Any advice?