Hey folks,
I was a longtime collector of vintage baseball cards, specifically cards dated from 1909-1939. Ty Cobb, Honus Wagner, etc.
I built up a pretty sizable collection, both in volume and in value.
I have frequented hobby events (card shows, community gatherings, etc.) across the country and thus built up a community of friends.
I recently decided to exit my position for a number of reasons. In short, I want to prioritize different things (travel, additional investments, house, etc.).
This has shocked several in my circle. I was flooded with texts, emails, direct messages, etc. asking why I am selling.
In a few instances, when I explained my position and viewpoints on the industry, folks have tried to rebut me.
They have made comments like, "you can always make more $" and "the market [stocks] is too risky at the moment."
I do not really understand this at all. I thought these people were like minded in that they viewed these things as alternative assets that tend to go up over time.
I do believe that when things sell, I will have profited from a cost-basis perspective. That was not always my intention, it just happened to be so.
I loved the cards, history, etc. but I am not emotionally attached to them or the idea of collecting. I may dip back in at some point for fun, but as of now I want to use the money for other things.
I believe this is something that happens frequently in hobbies where things are treated as collectibles (sports cards, watches, etc.).
People tend to act as purists and take a "never sell" approach. I just do not get this.
I feel like I am losing a part of my community because of this and that just sucks.
What is the Mustachian way to view all of this?