Not sure what your complete family picture is, but there is a flip-side of living close to family: it can save you a ton of money. When my fiance and I have kids (God-willing), we are going to have a ton of help because both of our parents live in our same small town. My parents are actually divorced and both remarried, so there are three sets of families to help out.
My dad's second wife is a teacher and has tons of time off, and she has already said she can't wait to babysit. My fiance's mom is off on Fridays. My mom gets out of work very early (2:30ish), which might mean that kids only need to be in daycare for 3-4 hours per day. Add all this up and our childcare costs will hopefully be a lot lower, and it will also allow my fiance to work (as much as she feels appropriate).
Also, I feel like it's a lot easier to stay in instead of go out with family. Just yesterday we hosted my brother's birthday party and everything cost like $30 total. Pasta with spicy alfredo sauce, andoille sausage, grilled chicken, salads, cake, and a couple beers. Compound this over time and it's a lot.
My last point: people and culture matter more than location. I live in Youngstown, Ohio, which is widely known as being economically depressed. But it's a great small town that's in the midst of a slow but observable comeback and, more importantly, I have tons of friends and family here. An outsider would likely consider my town boring, but the people are what matters.
So my vote: go home. It's worth it.